youngconfusedme Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I am a married woman who is being pursued... I think I know the answer but would like to see it in writting from men who have pursued and conquered the married women... why us?
RecordProducer Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I don't think it's married women specifically that attract men; I think they just hit on every woman they like and don't care if she is married or not. They don't think much in advance (I am talking about those men who hit on married women, not all men). They want sex and don't mind if she is in a committed relationship. When I was married men didn't hit on me at all, but I didn't meet new men. Now everybody hits on me although they know I have a BF. they just ignore that fact. I don't know whether they are more attracted to the "goods" if someone else has already bought it or they think I could dump him for them or cheat on him, but I know they hit on me because they are simply attracted to me. I didn't notice any change since I am in a relationship. They hit on me equally frequently when they knew I was single. I get hit on by married men as much as by single men.
bluechocolate Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I think I know the answer but would like to see it in writing from men who have pursued and conquered the married women... why us? I can't oblige on the pursuing married women bit, but I'll have a go on the ...."why us" conquest - getting another dudes wife challenge - single girls are too easy ignorant misconceptions - all married women are gagging for it conceit - (see above) free & easy sex - no commitment necessary free & easy relationship - (see above) and quite possibly they actually like the married woman in question & don't give a stuff that she's married
Art_Critic Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 free & easy sex - no commitment necessary If I had to sum it up I would say this does. A guy is going to think if I hit on her and I get laid I don't have to worry about what her name is and if she is going to want to go out again. Simplistic thinking ..
Author youngconfusedme Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 If you work with the married woman, why would you pursue her b/c it isn't as easy as string free sex, b/c you have to see her everday... wouldn't that lead one ( the MW) to believe that you were interested in more... or are guys trully ruled by head in their pants dispite the consequences.
Art_Critic Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 or are guys trully ruled by head in their pants dispite the consequences. I'm sorry I didn't hear you.. I was staring at your breasts Yes to a point we are.. Some guys don't even look at the consequences but I don't think that is because of mr happy.. it is because they are just plain stupid
bluechocolate Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 If you work with the married woman, why would you pursue her b/c it isn't as easy as string free sex, b/c you have to see her everday... wouldn't that lead one ( the MW) to believe that you were interested in more... Pick one of the other choices then. Maybe they lead otherwise dull & boring lives and really get off on the intrigue & the drama - sleeping with a married woman at work, like living on the edge. I hope that some guy who has or is pursing a married woman offers some insight. ...or are guys trully ruled by head in their pants dispite the consequences. Undoubtedly some are, but as AC says, they're the stupid ones.
TUDOR Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 From past experience I will say that some MW are looking for some spice in their life. They feel neglected by their husbands, there attempts at trying to sexy for them go unnoticed etc. Men that come across one of this MW are in for a fun ride. The sex is intense and full of passion. It is like uncorking the animal in a woman that has been dying to get out. I'm not condoning it in any way just answering your question from past experience.
Dean3922 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Are you enjoying his pursuit, youngconfusedme? Some men just like to see how committed a married women really is, forbidden fruit so to speak. He figures if he flatters her and she doesn't say no or tell him to leave her alone then he sees an opportunity. It usually happens in a work environment. Some married women enjoy the attention from a man other than their H's so they allow him to pursue. They feel it is safe as they are married but it can become an emotional affair which leads to a physical one. If he feels you are enjoying is pursuit you need to inform him that you will not tolerate his advances. Just quit speaking to him. If he still tries tell him you will tell his superior. Unless he is stupid he should back off and chase easier prey.
Author youngconfusedme Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 I see your point Dean however...where did he get the balls to even try it in the first place? But, I conceed the point that I do or did (the confusion it creates makes it less appealing each day) attention and he would not have made is next move forward w/o me making a move.
Dean3922 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Then if you want it to end you need to be firm with him and tell him no means no. If you still act like you enjoy his attention he will continue. He figures he will break down your resistance over time and he has all the time in the world. I know it is mean to ignore but if you tell him and he doesn't stop then he is being mean. The decision is yours, not his.
alphamale Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Men that come across one of this MW are in for a fun ride. The sex is intense and full of passion. It is like uncorking the animal in a woman that has been dying to get out. I'm not condoning it in any way just answering your question from past experience. Yes and that particular man may also come across a very mean and angry husband who just happens to own a shotgun and a .38 caliber handgun
TUDOR Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Yes and that particular man may also come across a very mean and angry husband who just happens to own a shotgun and a .38 caliber handgun Ya for one to see how bad this could possible go just check out confusedMM's thread. So not worth it!
Author youngconfusedme Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 Ya for one to see how bad this could possible go just check out confusedMM's thread. So not worth it! confusedMM's thread what is this
TUDOR Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 confusedMM's thread what is this http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t69691/
whichwayisup Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 confusedMM's thread what is this What a mess his life turned out to be ... So just be very careful of your choices as it could turn and bite you hard in the bum.
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