Have you ever had a "Right Person Wrong Time" kind of relationship?

[ieele]

i dated a amazing girl who i realized was right for me too late. she was someone i met in high school track and we instantly clicked. We would always get touchy and joke around together and she would always care for me. She had a crush on me for 2 years even when she went out with my friend for a few month. Let's call her girl A.

 

But my mind was on another girl, lets call her girl B. Girl B was sweet and funny but i never made a move on her because i was scared that she didn't like me even when the signs were obvious that she did. 2 years pass and i still slightly had feelings for girl B while girl A was still always hanging around me.

 

It was near the end of senior year for girl A and that's when we started hanging around each other a lot more. I'd notice she would always hang around me before track started and hold onto my arm tight when it was cold. As the end of the school year got closer we became closer and closer and started hanging out after school and flirting.

 

I realized that i loved this girl and that she was there for me this whole time. So i asked her to hang out with me at lunch for the first time and when we got together i kissed her. No not on the lips but on the forehead. later that night we face timed and she asked me if i liked her. I said yes and that's when we started going out. But we both knew deep down she was going to college soon. we talked about it and both cried but we didn't end it. Instead we tried to squeeze 2 years of feelings into 2 months.

 

At first it was amazing, but soon we got stressed about the relationship. Not because we didn't love each other but because we loved each other too much. Although we knew it was coming we met up and she broke up with me. It hurt like hell and we were both crying.

 

i told her it hurt to be friends but she said its going to take time but hopes we can be close friends in the future. i'll always have her in my heart but for now im trying to move on.

 

Whats your story? im curious to know.

[Liz Murry]

Yes. But, as life turned out...it was a blessing we did not end up together