CantDecide... Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Hey guys i just met this new girl. shes really great, weve hit off pretty well as much as i can tell. we talk quit a bit, and get along great and have a lot in common. but theres something about her that is freaking me out in a way. her ex Bf is a BLOOD(gang), and im scared that if anything is to go wrong, im going to die, like literaly or get my ass handed to me. I mean i dont plan on screwing up becasue i really like this girl, but things can happen. i mean she told him about me they still talk, just as my ex and i still talk. And he ws like well as long as he treats you with respect, then im happy for you. but still in general i really like this girl, and dont want something small like this scare me away from her
Cupcake Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 This is a real creepy situation. I don't know what type of relationship you want to have with this girl. You seem really young (in age). If your just trying to have some fun, then keep things light with her. Be honest and communicate openly with her. But if you are looking for something more serious, then the XBF should not be an issue. I never understand how two Xlovers can be such good friends that they would say negative things about their new lovers. If she has that type of relationship with her XBF, there will be problems, as you already see, in the future for you. X's should never be an issue in healthy, loving relationships.
battleworn Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Uh, if you don't want any misunderstandings, make sure you say "into the this girl, but". One 't'. Otherwise you will get a cap in your head. If the possibility of getting killed is a 'small' thing, what qualifies as a big turnoff? Toilet seat down?
danny8630 Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 watch your ass. my two cents and from what i've observed from gang/click related people is that girls are almost as property. On the outside , the kid may be like "yeah, go date, make sure he's a good guy...."blahblah blah. But really he hates anyone even talking to her, much less doing the durrrty with her:D . How long had they dated? how long have they been broken up? how often do they talk. Seriously consider a lot of questions because it could turn into something serious. i mean seriously, what if you and your girl go out and one of his 'boys' spot you ? i would think you would be in some ****. Be careful man....
mixwell Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I would try to just stay away from that whole mix.. I would never go out with a girl that had gangster friends. Because if some shiz comes up they might run to them and yer screwed.. Its a tough on to call for me.. just do what you think is in YOUR best interest. Peace
Author CantDecide... Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 ahhh i know what all u guys are saying, it is a tuff situation, i just am starting to like her, and i just ended a long term relationship of my own, at this given moment im not about to get into a relationship, after 2 years, but i plan on continuing to talk to this girl, dat her adn stuff, but nothing serious. i mean i dont think i have much to worry about, im a really good guy, i dont hit, abusice my girls in any way pther then play wrestling... i dont cheat, i dont usually do things to cause jealosy. so on that front im ok...but if he pissed in general shes with sum1 else, im screwed, but she said herself...he doestn care he said im cool with everything as long as he treats you right, but if he ever hurts u hes gonan get a talkin to...and she said to me in all seriousness dont worry about him, i swear hes not like that...so im just gonna follow my heart on this one, and see were it takes me
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