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She hasn't made contact with me since last night message she got the hangers.. Oh well I guess she doesn't want her device that wasn't working back. Anything else develops I'll share here.. I have to get back work. Too much time spend one woman with no results either way. I got to get back to tending to my needs! Thanks everyone for your honesty with this situation.

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Okay I haven’t been here in a while and I apologize if I’m being tough on this situation but if I am wrong anyone is free to point that out.

 

Now this is so wrong it made me log in just to post here because let’s be honest this shouldn’t be happening.

 

 

You named your thread you played hard to get and it paid off ? Explain that because all you did was waste your time, your effort and now your emotions are now involved?? By the way just because you don’t text or answer a call means your playing hard to get.

Playing hard to get should almost be natural because you should be busy and have an active life style not sit waiting by the phone like in this where she calls and you don’t answer because you think it will look cool or make you more valuable.

 

 

Alright so everyone told you this is sketchy and you refuse to listen, by your third post I knew this was disaster in the making and yet you still refuse to just block this woman and move on!

 

Stop meeting this clown at parking lots, gas stations, suvs, cars, or anywhere in the world where you can get shot ! Pretend she has a restraining order on you and leave if you see her.

 

Also stop dreaming scenarios like “yeah I’m not going to her place and she’s not going to mine” when it’s more like “ he can’t come to my place because my husband is there and I can’t go to his place because she’s not interested” trust me if she was she would go to your place and you wouldn’t say no that’s for sure. Stop mentally closing yourself!!!

 

This isn’t healthy for you.... you’re stalking her social media, you’re counting how many guys she knows and the worst sad part is you think it’s funny or slick?! Another reason to move on

 

 

Who cares if she’s married? Single? Needs money? That’s not your problem! It never was!!

 

 

I hope you dont continue to stalk her and it’s really a shame because with the amount of effort you are investing you could be focusing that into you or something that would at least pay off.

 

This is why women don’t respect floor mats so stop looking for excuses like “some device” or “ im gonna help her make money” because as soon as she meets some guy who she’s attracted too who treats her like crap and pounds her in the back of the suv because that’s what she likes.... she will DROP you.!!!

 

 

You seem like a good guy who deserves better and should have better so go out there and Focus on you you !

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This all started from the training class I was in where I met her at. I had helped her once with laptop she wanted to buy for her 6 year old daughter. She said she found one on ebay for $95 bucks it was DELL. I told her it wasn't a good deal the screen was defective. But there was $179 laptop on DELL site for new. But she decided to go for the $95 laptop instead.

 

After 3 weeks of training I got a better job with higher pay. I deal with people all day long in the business I am. So I told her good buy and good luck with Duke. When I ran into Duke when leaving he told me she has way to many issues for him.

 

So 3 weeks after that I got a called this month from her. She wanted to talk to me and talk and I told her I was busy I'll her back later. She called me right back and I didn't bother to pickup the line.

 

When I had time I did call her back she picked up the line and we talk about things. This where where things develop. So she make it sound like she was interested in me. I had to make sure she wasn't with someone.She said she wasn't and she was available to see anyone. So alright so I told her I would be interested.

 

The only issue was I could'nt make it that same night, it was too late to get to her and meet her in her own area in the some sort of parking lot I guess near the salon.

 

So later we had talked from 11 pm to 2 am in the morning. She and I arranged a time to see each other. But she had to run errands and she was so busy. Okay so I told her when you got a chance you can call me when you want to meet-up?

 

No one is stalker anyone she freely gave me her facebook screen name on What's App. I use to look for her. But not until the next day. I though nothing by it. I found her and was overwhelm by the number of men following her over 1, 071 and all the likes were over 65 men. I had looked under her about and it read she was married in 2017. I had sent her a text saying I had seen your facebook and wow so many men and your married as well.

 

From there I didn't hear a word from her. Then out of the blue a few days later she apologizes and said she was sorry she couldn't make it to see me.

 

Now what do you want me to say here as you can see didn't this sound like she wanted to go out. When it was her birthday I had sent her virtual birthday cake with her name on it. Of course I didn't know she didn't like a chocolate cake. But she was a good sport about it. She sent me a nice text.

 

I make her fill special and sent her balloons. I am not stalker her, but when the comment of saying here by the others she still married. I looked up to that time line she said on about she was married. I reverse the time line to the guy who turned out now as we know it since yesterday is the 6 year old father. But she claims that the marriage part was a lie she was just playing around. Even one of the female face book friends said girl stop lying.

 

So she make it clear last night she wan't married. To I believe her or not I really can't say either way, but it sure looks like something is amiss.

 

Again it's my right to find out who she is I didn't go more into it. I have some friends that could do a background check but not worth it because I really haven't been on a true date with her. All this was just getting to know her.

 

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Movies - Horror

Food - HBD Cake no chocolate, hates pineapple, coconut and kiwi.

Smokes - No

Drinks - No

Drugs - No

Dating - No she was available.

TV Show - No

This is what I new so far

 

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She can see Ghost around her.. I didn't mention this before because I am just remembering what she told me the phone. She claims to see ghost around her always.

 

She's into butt kicks, likes when when others like to beat each other up. Got a lot of videos on that subject on Facebook.

 

She got into argument with a woman who blocked her path on the right side of the wrong. This girl her make a video and place it on her timeline. She started to curse and swear so foul mouth. The men she had on following list a lot of them responded.

 

Her photos on Facebook are all sensual and sexual. Any man can see her stuff. That's what she wants. She told me last night they stalk and harass her by calling the FB Voice phone to do video chat. She blocks them. But why have your account so open. She block add request also like I do.

 

Well the rest you can read I am not going into this so much in depth. I trying to get over this nightmare. The only thing I was working on with her is what we were training for. She had one of those devices I told her I could try to fix it for her. I just mention extra money that all. Why can't I ask or tell about that.

 

She gave that device too me to fix so there is trust there. I not going into this anymore because I have learn here from you all and what I've experience last night it's best not to even think this girl is on the same level as me and plus whoever she's trying to get with it not me. Now I feel like stool pigeon for her own means.

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Whew!!!

 

That's a ton of baggage right there...

 

No woman or getting your noddle wet is worth living with or interacting with that..

 

Good Riddance...

 

and you are now forewarned so when she contacts you again and sucks you in it's ALL on you at this point

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Whew!!!

 

That's a ton of baggage right there...

 

No woman or getting your noddle wet is worth living with or interacting with that..

 

Good Riddance...

 

and you are now forewarned so when she contacts you again and sucks you in it's ALL on you at this point

 

You all including yourself know she'll never give up with me. She has texted me a while ago my phone blew-up with her texting..She just called me on her lunch/dinner break. I am not going anywhere I need a break.. She said her daughter got upset with coming in late like she did last night.

 

Her 30K request she'll take care of that on her own, she's trying to get a better job. She told me the min in pay would be $9, oh-my listen you need $26 or higher.

 

Hands turn around the other way I don't know what I would do but right now keep the distance and no more parking lots LOL I am working so I got to run..

 

Like I said I didn't plan on getting my noodle wet with her as I just don't know who she really is? Trust me I know better than most men you loose it over beauty and grace. She has ton of issues. I did ask her did you see any ghost around me she said no! I rest my case!

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You all including yourself know she'll never give up with me.

 

She will when her husband figures out what she's up to.

 

Don't delude yourself, man. This isn't going anywhere.

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She will when her husband figures out what she's up to.

 

Don't delude yourself, man. This isn't going anywhere.

 

This is delusion times 20 here, you're posting long and detailed answers that everytime show how damaged this woman is, yet you totally invest yourself in something that is just her using you for attention and ego boost, she's not doing anything for you.

 

What in hell is wrong in you that you feel compelled, to fix this immature woman and continue arming yourself and wasting energy !!!?

 

You think you're handling her, or that you're smart on this matter, I don't know what's your thoughts, but it's either that she's playing on your Savior syndrome, or that your ego demands you make it work with her, so you show your greatness at dating crazy to anyone...

 

Either way after 6 pages not one person tells you anything good and you're still overexplaining and finding excuses, what's the point of the thread, to make you feel good about your slickness or something ?

 

I'm sure you'll stick with her and think you're dating at some point and then all the crap will fall upon you, don't come crying then, you have been warned by everyone.

 

This is a waste of time !

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Yeah I find this thread really creepy. I guess you don't have much interaction with women to have to obsesse over this...she's owes you nothing, you have not even been on an proper date or kissed.

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How is this creepy where you have a woman that preys on men on facebook. I only met her in technical training class. I trained with her, did group task with her and just because friendly with her. That's it. Sure she got personal at times. I do ask questions.

 

Me personally I date a lot, I am very social and business savvy. Just this woman had find her interesting in class. I never hit on her just spoken to her in class. She was hot to trot type. All she told me she was a single mother raising her 6 year old. At first I thought she was living with her mother, but soon find out she was living on her own. Daughter dad wasn't around. But the truth of the matter is he is in the same city has she is.

 

My take on all of this is that I got caught up in her the wrong way. I should have known better. I let my guard down. Why would I have taken such a risk of meeting her like I did. my area is a lot saver than hers. Yeah I might have wanted to go to her area but it will never happen.

 

I thought more about all this and just decided to just drop it. Just getting to out of hand here on LS. Some comments and suggestion are getting a bit weird for me.

 

Until now just trying to get back in sync. She called during her break and I guess she thought I wanted to see her again. No way did I even utter a sound on the subject.

 

Just said goodbye.. Her device is can't be restored. If she wants it back she can have it. I'll drop it off at her work by a friend and she can get it from security. I am done. I've met someone else though a friend. I hope things work out fore the best for me. I am still young go a great future ahead.

 

Thanks to those here for your help to make me see that this woman would destroy who I was as person. No good came from this.

 

Calls out of the blue never mounted to anything but disaster.

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Just said goodbye.. Her device is can't be restored. If she wants it back she can have it. I'll drop it off at her work by a friend and she can get it from security. I am done. I've met someone else though a friend. I hope things work out fore the best for me. I am still young go a great future ahead.

 

Finally.

 

Hopefully the new woman is more balanced. Best wishes

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Finally.

 

Hopefully the new woman is more balanced. Best wishes

 

Thank you I've blocked (facebook, cell, etc)the other woman mentioned here.

The new girl, she sweet and nice, single no kids, never married, a teacher. I wanted to share with you some great news for a chance. I did go out on our first date yesterday. I had taken her to Cheesecake Factory for dinner, then free concert where we danced the night away an after than drove her back to her place gave her a hug and kiss! :)

 

There is a happy ever lasting time with another new girl who's stable and got her life together after all! :bunny:

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Thank you I've blocked (facebook, cell, etc)the other woman mentioned here.

The new girl, she sweet and nice, single no kids, never married, a teacher. I wanted to share with you some great news for a chance. I did go out on our first date yesterday. I had taken her to Cheesecake Factory for dinner, then free concert where we danced the night away an after than drove her back to her place gave her a hug and kiss! :)

 

There is a happy ever lasting time with another new girl who's stable and got her life together after all! :bunny:

See, there are normal and stable women out there, you don't need to bother with ones that have all the problems in the world, why make your life harder for no gain !

 

Some people look at me weird when i say this, but if you step back on your relationships and relate it to buying a car or business deal, no one would buy what this woman had to sell, it's a lose lose situation, of course feelings sometimes complicate it, but remaining logic is good.

 

Good luck with normal girl !

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