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August 14, 2018

At my recent job I met this girl she's so beautiful, I can't keep my eyes off of her. Well she was in my training class and we both had worked on project task together. She would always smile and wink and laugh with me. I wonder how I would get the task done sometimes. LOL I never would even consider asking someone like her out , but I keep it business professional always. But we both exchange phone numbers an etc.

I was trying to help her find a laptop at a good price online for her 6 year old daughter. I had phone her to tell here what I had found for her. She seems nice she's 28, single never married only been with her child father, but has dated a couple of men prior with bad results like with the child dad and the rest of the men always cheated on her. She's so busy going to college, working and taking care of her baby girl. She doesn't has the time to date let alone have spare time for herself.

Speeding a few weeks to last week. I got a call from her she was getting her hair done. I was surprise to get a call. Normally we both just text on What's App, like Hi, GM, GN etc. She doesn't say much. She's also going for her CNA too. In a few text messages she told me she's done with school. But didn't pass the final for CNA license only she got Certified. So the call was more like she wanted to get to know me better. Since last Friday we talked a lot on the phone. She called me back a few times. She was waiting to get her hair done. She didn't know how long she would be also there today. This was around 5:30 pm.

I had to run some errands myself and I didn't finish up until 8:30 pm. She calls me up and ask what I was doing. So I had asked her if we could meet-up tonight. She said well yes I can do that. I had to take a dump first, then jump into the shower. I told her it would be 10 to 20 mins before I could get out the door. When I did she called me and said where I was? She's been waiting for me. Now she and to go pick up her baby daughter from her mother. I was sad, I couldn't hurry up faster. To catch her. But later on that night she called me up around 10 pm, then 11 pm and we both chatted until 1:30 am in the morning. During that time she told me she could see me on Saturday. I said sure no problem. When Saturday came I got a call from her at 10:35 am. We chatted some more and learn more about each other like we did last night.

I had asked her when did she think we could meet-up again today. She said she let me know when. At 2 pm she calls me up and chatted some more on. She was only off Friday and Saturday and works Sunday thru Thursday 11:30 am to 8:15 pm. As you can see really no time for us together otherwise plus she needs sometime with her baby girl. What I've learn otherwise she has moved out of parents house since November 2017 got her own Apartment for her and baby girl only. See at first I thought her Mother had lived with her. She said no. After that call I didn't hear a peep from her. I didn't want to bother her with text or phone calls.

Around 8 pm I had sent her a text saying It's okay I know your a busy mom and you might have gotten caught up with things so we can meet-up another time. Good night have a sleep tight have a pleasant night! Send some animated gifs along with that text message on What's App. Before I knew my phone had rang! It was her! She had I said she was very sorry an apologize to me saying she very sorry about today. She told me she had almost fallen but she was alright. I was concern about her if she got injured?

She said she was okay. We had talked for 58 minutes. She would call me again that night she did and had talked for about 1 or so. She said she had to shop for her baby daughter for school on Monday had to work on Sunday. We had chatted until she left for 24 hour Walmart Super-center. On Sunday I sent over some things we had talked about through What's App. I had said also maybe after work I can meet-up with you tonight? Sent that at 10:51 am Sunday. She had replied back saying I have no one to watch my baby daughter for me. That came in at 10:53 am. I didn't here from her until 8:51 pm with a text message saying Hi, and had sent one back saying Hi..

Yesterday not a word from her. I had sent a late night text message saying Good night!

She seems interested in me, on the phone we both had spoken about what we light and dislike, what movie she liked and does she prefer to go out to eat or rather have a good home cooked meal. Stuff like that.

What you all think about this? Any advise? I know she's not seeing or with anyone right now. She said she was completely free. Remember she called me up last Friday?

August 14, 2018

I forgot to mention this Friday August 17th is her 29th Birthday. I did ask her was anyone doing anything for her? She said nope. I told her I would take her out? She seem happy about it on the phone. Note at work we do not see each other because of our schedule is different. I haven't heard a word from her since Sunday.

I worried about something one of my male co-worker in our training class said about her. He said she has issues? I wonder what kind of issues was he referring too? I guess he was seeing her in a way? I did mention that to her she said no they're not going out at all. Plus he had trust issues with a prior girl friend and didn't really trust any woman.

I am wondering should I even bother to take her out, but I want too anyway.. I did ask her when she had fell has that happen before she said kinda sorta of. I know she has OCD, and I kinda have that myself. She said she has to keep the apartment clean and she couldn't go out until it was cleaned. I never knew she wasn't with her baby girl Saturday into Sunday. She was free to go out but had to clean the apartment.

Edited August 14, 2018 by Williamjacob

August 14, 2018

Is this how you behave when you are interested in someone? Always seem to be not available, can't hammer a time down to see each other, the sparse communication, etc?

August 14, 2018

I cringed at "meet this girl at work."

IMO you just don't date people you work with. Seems the majority of cases end in disaster, jealously, office drama, confusion, awkwardness, etc...and you have to keep on seeing them after the fact. With so many other available people on the planet, I just think its better not getting involved with anyone at work. That way, when things end...as all but the last one do...you don't have to see them all the time or work on presentations together.

From what I gather, you do work together, though you say you met in the training class and that she's still in college while working, so maybe I'm misreading.

Putting that aside, your schedules don't seem to line up very well and it also seems that any availability is a bit tricky even if they did line up better. Throw a little daughter in the mix, and of course she's going to be priority and monopolize time (as she should) and pull this girl away at odd times.

I feel like things got off to a rocky start and you may have come off a little flaky. That's not the worse thing in the world however. Sometimes a little unavailability can make a person become more interested and try a little harder. But I would consider maybe arranging something with a little more time ahead to plan. That way she can arrange a sitter or something and you could get a real night out.

August 14, 2018

Is this how you behave when you are interested in someone? Always seem to be not available, can't hammer a time down to see each other, the sparse communication, etc?

Actually I don't work for that company again, it was 4 week training course. So that's why I don't really see her at work. But I got this call from her out of the blue. So she made the first attempt. She kept on calling me that day too. I returned her call and we talk. Shouldn't I take her out for her Birthday on Friday? I didn't know it was her birthday. She point down in the comments on What's app it was her birthday.

August 14, 2018

I cringed at "meet this girl at work."

IMO you just don't date people you work with. Seems the majority of cases end in disaster, jealously, office drama, confusion, awkwardness, etc...and you have to keep on seeing them after the fact. With so many other available people on the planet, I just think its better not getting involved with anyone at work. That way, when things end...as all but the last one do...you don't have to see them all the time or work on presentations together.

From what I gather, you do work together, though you say you met in the training class and that she's still in college while working, so maybe I'm misreading.

Putting that aside, your schedules don't seem to line up very well and it also seems that any availability is a bit tricky even if they did line up better. Throw a little daughter in the mix, and of course she's going to be priority and monopolize time (as she should) and pull this girl away at odd times.

I feel like things got off to a rocky start and you may have come off a little flaky. That's not the worse thing in the world however. Sometimes a little unavailability can make a person become more interested and try a little harder. But I would consider maybe arranging something with a little more time ahead to plan. That way she can arrange a sitter or something and you could get a real night out.

Yes and no in a way I am not there I got a better offer after training. She stayed behind. She's hot and very attractive and told her so. She kept on saying thank you in person over the phone. Well I am not calling her on the phone until she calls me. I don't know what happen Saturday. She told me she needed to have furniture moved. I had offered to help but again since we really have done anything yet except working on projects in a training room class or going out to her SUV to talk and chat. I didn't think at the time she was into me. I remember the teasing and the look in her eyes. I feel dumb now.

I could have asked her out. On the last day of training I did see her she smiled. I didn't know if I was going back or not. That was last month. But I never expected her to call me out of the blue like she did last Friday. I am aware of the baby daughter when she called I could hear the child in the background. Her mother was there too but she wasn't at home she was at her Mother's house. Her mother watches her grand kid. In a way she would have be able to meet me Saturday but all bets were off. Since she had to get her baby girl some clothes for school. It starts Monday school here.

Now I guess the first date will be on her Birthday, since she has no time to date Sunday thru Thursday. Friday looks like her Mother watches the baby girl that day. I guess I have wait on her to call then. I am not calling her, i told her I won't bother her. She has too much on her already. She's done with College she said last month.

Edited August 14, 2018 by Williamjacob

August 14, 2018

Does she have a lot of friends? a good social group?

August 14, 2018

She likes you. If you like her, figure it out & go on a date. Stop making it overly complicated. You are both busy so respect her time tables but by all means get together already.

August 15, 2018

Does she have a lot of friends? a good social group?

No clue to this question?

August 15, 2018

She likes you. If you like her, figure it out & go on a date. Stop making it overly complicated. You are both busy so respect her time tables but by all means get together already.

I hope your right? I haven't heard a word (by text only) from her since last Sunday on 12th of August 2018. I've quit texting her also. The only time I had called her or callback was when she called last Friday on 10th of August 2018 and on Saturday the 11th of August 2018.

This Friday on the 17th is her Birthday. On the What's App under her name it reads: Happy birthday to me, August 17

Edited August 15, 2018 by Williamjacob

August 15, 2018

No clue to this question?

Just trying to get a little background on her so I can get an idea of her personality and how much you know about her or how much she even told you about herself.

August 15, 2018

I think maybe that guy was right and she is OCD and it keeps her from being able to get out the door easily, plus of course, she's a single mom, and they are so busy, and she works. So she has very little time. I would ask her "I know you are so busy, so tell me when is the best time to get together and I'll be flexible." She seems to like you or she wouldn't be in touch so much. I do think he's right she has issues that may make it hard to date her. You can also ask her to bring her daughter with you but if so, take them to a casual place where children are welcome. Her daughter might be a holy terror or something.

Good luck.

August 15, 2018

So send her an early birthday message & offer to take her out for a drink to celebrate.

August 16, 2018

Dude, I feel for you but...

Any woman that wants you to help her do something that helps her 'situation' before you're even in a relationship like moving furniture and doing things that help her situation but have nothing to do with you...is probably a woman that is USING you.

Don't tell a woman she is hot and attractive. First of all...just because she is hot and attractive does not give her the right to use you as a utility nor does it give her some special status. You're getting suckered in by her looks.

She's been using her looks her whole life to get **** done for her. This is how attractive girls operate 9/10 times.

And you're totally overthinking the conversation. Why you so worried about losing this opportunity if you don't happen to call her back or meet her at the 'right time'.

If you act nervous around women, they can sense your weakness.

When your schedules line up. Be a gentleman but try to bang her as soon as possible. Sorry to be a brutal kvnt, but just letting you know how it is.

August 16, 2018

Just trying to get a little background on her so I can get an idea of her personality and how much you know about her or how much she even told you about herself.

Oh! Now I know where you going with this. Somewhat? I would talk to her in training class and she told me a few things about herself. That's how I knew that she was looking for a computer for her baby girl. She told me she found one on ebay used. She gave me the link to my cell phone. That's how I got her number. I found a deal for a new one on DELL web site. $179. I had texted her in the morning we had spoken on the cell phone. She was getting ready for school (college) she was becoming a nurse (CNA) also going to training class we did get paid for training class which was 8 hours a day we had two 15 minute breaks and 45 minute lunch break. I do remember now she had some girls she had as friends they were going to take her out for clubs. She doesn't drink alcohol and she doesn't know how to dance which I recently found out on the phone call last weekend.

I told her I would teach her how to dance. I know enough about her during the phone calls I was asking her some questions just trying to get a feel of what she was into, movies, music, food (I do know she loves to cook), she had spoken a lot about herself told me she ODC right up front, she had some issues. I told her I was find with that because my friends and past dates told me I had that too. I like to keep things in order and I was also germophobic.

We had chatted for also most 4 hrs on cell before the cell would die. She said she would call me back and she did 2 hrs later.

When she first called I was busy that Friday, and I told her I would call her later. Do you know what she did she called me right back after she told me to hold. But I to go. Once thing I know she had listen to me when I was talking which I like that fact She said she into cleaning and wanted her apartment cleaned before she would do anything else she had mentioned also she had mold on her white sofa/couch and she was trying to get it out. Got like that because she watch her clothes and put the damp ones on the sofa/couch. Now she wanted someone to take out the sofa/couch out. To replace it. She didn't have anyone to do that. I offered my assistance. But since she really didn't know me in that capacity yet I couldn't help yet.

August 16, 2018

I think maybe that guy was right and she is OCD and it keeps her from being able to get out the door easily, plus of course, she's a single mom, and they are so busy, and she works. So she has very little time. I would ask her "I know you are so busy, so tell me when is the best time to get together and I'll be flexible." She seems to like you or she wouldn't be in touch so much. I do think he's right she has issues that may make it hard to date her. You can also ask her to bring her daughter with you but if so, take them to a casual place where children are welcome. Her daughter might be a holy terror or something.
Good luck.

Yes she told me she was OCD and I am like that too. She chuckled on the cell (phone). I already did what you had mention here on LS last weekend. I did suggest helping her take out her old sofa/couch because it had mold on it She tried to get it out. I did mentioned too her about has she ever been to Boomer Park which is a place to take kids of all ages. I was trying to find out what she likes to do like miniature golf, arcade games or air hockey. She said no she never been there. Could have taken her baby girl there and also got a play ground to take her baby girl too also here huge one. They have nature trail and huge tree house. Yes the little girl is a terror I heard her on the cell(phone) and the mother her was telling her to behave and such.

I hope your right though, not a peek from her as yet. I did mentioned to her I would take her out for her birthday and left a message on SMS and What's App about it. Can't text without a response from her. I told her on the cell(phone) I wouldn't disturb her. I hope she calls or text. The last word was Hi at 8:51 pm from her Sunday. Nothing else. You know what I had left last Saturday open for her. I am doing that again for her HBD too.

August 16, 2018

So send her an early birthday message & offer to take her out for a drink to celebrate.

I did say something to that effect to her last Saturday, but she doesn't drink alcohol, I would take her out for her HBD since no one else was going to do it. She had like. I've text her this already.

August 16, 2018

Dude, I feel for you but...

Any woman that wants you to help her do something that helps her 'situation' before you're even in a relationship like moving furniture and doing things that help her situation but have nothing to do with you...is probably a woman that is USING you.

Don't tell a woman she is hot and attractive. First of all...just because she is hot and attractive does not give her the right to use you as a utility nor does it give her some special status. You're getting suckered in by her looks.
She's been using her looks her whole life to get **** done for her. This is how attractive girls operate 9/10 times.

And you're totally overthinking the conversation. Why you so worried about losing this opportunity if you don't happen to call her back or meet her at the 'right time'.

If you act nervous around women, they can sense your weakness.
When your schedules line up. Be a gentleman but try to bang her as soon as possible. Sorry to be a brutal kvnt, but just letting you know how it is.

I don't know where you had come up with this scenario, but this is not the case with this girl. I would never tell a woman in Job training class that she was drop dead gorgeous. She told me thank you and smiled at me. I kept saying that to her every day when I seen her. Well the trainer had moved her to where I was sitting. She had a very low speaking voice. But she's very smart and knows how to carry herself. She might be slightly overdress at times but boy she's a knock out in my book. Wow!

She never imposed on me I had offered to help her move the sofa/couch. But she doesn't know me enough to have me come over to her to move hers. I would leave that to those who going to replace it with a new one.

I am not nervous or weak around her or anyone. I was just paying her a compliment about her gorgeous looks. She's not an American by-the-way. But she fun and good laugh. Let see where this goes. I will know more about that on Friday?

August 17, 2018

I've sent her a What's App and SMS saying Happy Birthday here name along with virtual Happy Birthday cake with her name on the game image as well. To grab her attention. Now I sit back and wait for her to call or text me back today! I hope I hear from her today! I can't believe the OCD would keep her from texting/cell calling me the entire week..

August 17, 2018

Seems to me she is ghosting you as you seem uninterested, she laid it out there and you didn't make a move...

Either you finally make a move towards showing her you have interest or you leave it alone since it looks like you blew her off...

Have you ever heard of the phrase, you snooze.. you lose... well.. you snoozed...

August 17, 2018

Seems to me she is ghosting you as you seem uninterested, she laid it out there and you didn't make a move...

Either you finally make a move towards showing her you have interest or you leave it alone since it looks like you blew her off...

Have you ever heard of the phrase, you snooze.. you lose... well.. you snoozed...

Friday night I couldn't make it time and she was only going to give me a few minutes.

August 17, 2018

I just heard from her via SMS...

She...

Hi

Thak yoy

It's start... If she wants to go out today with me she has to call and ask? I told her twice in the week when she was free I would take her out for her HBD today.

August 17, 2018

You are going to have to make some sort of move on her to show her you have more than a friendzone type of interest in her because that is where this is headed...

August 17, 2018

You are going to have to make some sort of move on her to show her you have more than a friendzone type of interest in her because that is where this is headed...

I've told her that's not what I would be interested in last week. Okay I had just call her and spoken to her. I said:

Happy Birthday

I forgot one thing, she said she was driving her baby girl to school. She doesn't like to talk/text on cell while on the highway driving because of accidents. So she'll call me when she gets back home. I told her we can do things with your baby girl also and suggested a few places. I explained to her what I would do on my HBD, also she can trust me even though we had only know each other from work. I think it gone well on the phone. She's very polite and didn't want to talk over me. Wow!

PS (by-the-way) she said she would have called me today! dah!

August 19, 2018

Update!

I've had a hard time with ther on her HSB. Told me she had to take her baby girl to school do laundry first wash her suv clean out the inside and then go pickup her baby girl from school. She wanted to clean the apartment all after than. Then later on told me she didn't want to go out after all. I told her okay but you wasted my entire day on you. I've made it possible to take you out. She felt bad and decided to go out after all.

While I was out with her I've notice a few things, that kept me concern. She has anger issues if she's confronted by anything out of the ordinary she will explode in anger. She swears like something one I wouldn't be around with too long. The baby girl is just as bad has her mother. They like to walk around and do a butt kick.

I made it possible to have a pleasant night with her and her baby girl terror. Long story but after the banana split things had turned out right.

After the next day I did some poking around on her FB account I did learn she was very popular with the men she had following sexy poses she was doing over 1,000 following her 99.9% where men. With lines that this.

If you can't support me like my bras support my breast, then you cannot be with me.

and this. Before I date any man with full facial hair, I will pull it out to make sure that it isn't fake. I should be the one to wear lace in the relationship.

Oh yes she got married on January 22 nd 2017, she never had mention she was married. When I was in training she told she had a kid, but I said where was the baby father she said he was a jerk and wasn't with him.

I just thought it would be interesting to see if this girl was really into me or what her deal was. I have someone else I was seeing but she was acting up on me. I decided to give her call and take her out the rest of the day yesterday. Because this other one wasn't living up to her truths and her lies are apparent at most. I think her type would be out of my league. Stick with a safe bet. Taking on a complex girl now would be me into a state of mind a totally plain madness.

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