Yeahitsme Posted August 19, 2018 Posted August 19, 2018 Okay so we live in an RV park so the laundry mat and showers are in the same building. The doors to the men s & women s showers are right next to each other. Last night my girlfriend went to take the laundry from the washers and put them in dryers and then take a shower afterwards. The whole process took her close to an hour when I know, first hand, that she takes 5to10 minute showers max. The weird part is, I took a walk over there about 20 to 25 minutes in and saw some dude walking away from the shower doors. It sucks because from where I was standing, I couldnt tell if he was coming out of the womens room or not & messing with my girl. The part that gets me is it was 4:30 in the morning... could it be just coincidence that they were in the shower rooms at the same time & he was just coming out of the mens room? I thought it was super odd that they d be there at the same time in the dead of night when no one should even be there lol. Tell me, what do you think? I want other people opinions so I can stop feeling like an assuming ******* . Thank you for your responses
smackie9 Posted August 19, 2018 Posted August 19, 2018 Maybe this time she had to do some extra shaving, or had to wait for the hot water (When not in use the hot water tank doesn't come on as often), or she was having private time to caress her lady parts, or she was having her flow and took time to rinse, or spent extra time sorting her laundry or whatever. It's not odd for someone to shower at 4:30 am if they work a graveyard shift or an early shift (especially if they have a long commute). BUT are there other behaviors you are noticing lately to make you suspicious?
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 19, 2018 Posted August 19, 2018 Maybe she was waiting for the dryer to finish and playing on her phone. Did she get back to the RV with dry laundry? 1
coolheadal Posted August 20, 2018 Posted August 20, 2018 Okay so we live in an RV park so the laundry mat and showers are in the same building. The doors to the men s & women s showers are right next to each other. Last night my girlfriend went to take the laundry from the washers and put them in dryers and then take a shower afterwards. The whole process took her close to an hour when I know, first hand, that she takes 5to10 minute showers max. The weird part is, I took a walk over there about 20 to 25 minutes in and saw some dude walking away from the shower doors. It sucks because from where I was standing, I couldnt tell if he was coming out of the womens room or not & messing with my girl. The part that gets me is it was 4:30 in the morning... could it be just coincidence that they were in the shower rooms at the same time & he was just coming out of the mens room? I thought it was super odd that they d be there at the same time in the dead of night when no one should even be there lol. Tell me, what do you think? I want other people opinions so I can stop feeling like an assuming ******* . Thank you for your responses Why do you not ask her what she was doing? You sound insured if you are not going to ask her what she has been up too. You know the story already. You seen a guy walking away from that area where you GF is supposedly during aka the laundry. Tell me why didn't you go with you GF when she is doing the laundry late at night. Why would you let her go on her own. Man-up and go with her. Unless it some ego thing with you. Now some other guy is hitting on her. If she's weak minded she'll allow it to continue. Better get involved now before you slip-up on this one.
bathtub-row Posted August 20, 2018 Posted August 20, 2018 It seems extremely odd that anyone - especially a woman - would be showering and doing laundry in an RV park at 4:30 in the morning. That’s just plain dangerous. Honestly, my first thought, too, would be that she was with the guy you saw because now you have two people showering at a bizarre time. Sounds like that might’ve been arranged.
doyathinkso Posted August 20, 2018 Posted August 20, 2018 Do you know who the guy is? Can you find out about him? She could be fooling around with him, but not necessarily. He might have been spying on her having a shower, a peeping tom. And, 4:30 AM is a pretty sketchy time to be showering in a public laundry in an RV park don't ya think? Kind of like just asking for trouble. Maybe she needs an escort.
kendahke Posted August 20, 2018 Posted August 20, 2018 I thought it was super odd that they d be there at the same time in the dead of night when no one should even be there lol. Tell me, what do you think? It's just as odd that she's there at 4:30 in the morning, too---so apparently, people can be there at that hour. A few years ago, my call time for my job was 6am--which meant I had to be up by 4am to shower and get ready for work. What makes you think that he doesn't have a job call time before 6am? And if so, then yeah, he'd be taking a shower at 4:30am. Also, why are you out creeping and spying on your girlfriend at 4:30am instead of going with her to do the laundry at that hour? THAT speaks more as to the condition of your relationship than anything else here. You are being an assuming *******. But to stop that, sit outside the laundry/shower facility at 4am to see who comes in to use the showers and you'll have your answer. Then you won't be assuming and speculating and trying to invent something against your girlfriend.
Redhead14 Posted August 25, 2018 Posted August 25, 2018 Okay so we live in an RV park so the laundry mat and showers are in the same building. The doors to the men s & women s showers are right next to each other. Last night my girlfriend went to take the laundry from the washers and put them in dryers and then take a shower afterwards. The whole process took her close to an hour when I know, first hand, that she takes 5to10 minute showers max. The weird part is, I took a walk over there about 20 to 25 minutes in and saw some dude walking away from the shower doors. It sucks because from where I was standing, I couldnt tell if he was coming out of the womens room or not & messing with my girl. The part that gets me is it was 4:30 in the morning... could it be just coincidence that they were in the shower rooms at the same time & he was just coming out of the mens room? I thought it was super odd that they d be there at the same time in the dead of night when no one should even be there lol. Tell me, what do you think? I want other people opinions so I can stop feeling like an assuming ******* . Thank you for your responses You tell her that you are not comfortable with her showering at 4:30 in the morning and that it's not safe. If she wants to shower in the wee hours of the night/morning again, you tell her it's not safe and that you will accompany her. Observe her reaction.
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