Pleasure

[Ashamedandguilty]

Do MM get pleasure from lieing to their wives and Affair partners?

 

It’s a double betrayal

[Chilli]

don't think MW or men would actually get much pleasure in that matter of fact the guilt would probably be killing many unless they hate their H or W.

[somanymistakes]

Some people get a thrill out of knowing how clever they are, others are guilty and ashamed.

 

Some people just don't think about anything that's not right there in front of them at the time. They say what gets them what they want, when they want it. How it would affect others if they knew the truth is irrelevant to them.

[stillafool]

I think MM feel guilty lying to their wives but not their affair partners. Affair partners are fantasy and sometimes fantasy involves untruths.

[carhill]

Sure some people inevitably derive pleasure from getting one over on another, whether that be lying, cheating, manipulating, whatever. They get pleasure from their perception of winning and someone else, or another entity, losing, and sometimes demonstrate it through words or actions. Part of human nature. Humans vary widely, and MM's/MW's are a subset of humans, so IMO there are no absolutes. And, since we can't read other's minds, watch for actions.