Author MusingsofaDude Posted August 21, 2018 Author Posted August 21, 2018 Yes I have seen confirmation of the pregnancy as well as the abortion. We have a joint American express CC and she put it on that CC for some reason. 1
mortensorchid Posted August 21, 2018 Posted August 21, 2018 Ouch ... I'm sorry this has happened to you. There is nothing that one can do or say to take this off of you. But I digress ... As to your relationship ... Exactly why did she go off and have the abortion without consulting you first on it? If she wasn't taking the birth control correctly to begin with or said she was going to take the Plan B, why did she lie about it? Communication is key to anything. If she is all crying and upset now, what do you think she will be like should you take her back? Act like nothing happened? It did. I took a Plan B earlier this year. One of my longtime FWB and I had an accident and we both agreed that we should not bring it to fruition if and when. Best thing for me and him. We are still FWB and we act like it didn't happen because it didn't. But I am a direct person and I believe in actions not lying back and ignoring it and hoping it will go away. Which sounds like the both of you were doing to begin with. Sorry to say that, but you did say when she was not 100% about her BC being as it should be you kind of had a "let's not think about that right now" attitude by your description.
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