Yolosloth Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 So me and this chick messed around and stop talking around 3 months ago. I recently messaged. Just talking as friends. Couple days later she shows up to where I skate. Coincidence I think not. She skates but I never seen her there since I been going. Said hey chit chat a Lil and I went and did my own thing. Didn't pay much attention unless I passed by. Seemed like she was flirting with the people I skate around. Idk but think she trying to play games here
PegNosePete Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 Sounds like she's just being sociable to me.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 So me and this chick messed around and stop talking around 3 months ago. I recently messaged. Just talking as friends. Couple days later she shows up to where I skate. Coincidence I think not. She skates but I never seen her there since I been going. Said hey chit chat a Lil and I went and did my own thing. Didn't pay much attention unless I passed by. Seemed like she was flirting with the people I skate around. Idk but think she trying to play games here What did you say in your message? And why did you two stop talking before?
Author Yolosloth Posted August 17, 2018 Author Posted August 17, 2018 I just complimented her on something and she said thank you and just sent a couple message back and forth not much. She actually came again today with her girlfriends and she seemed like she wanted me to come to her. I asked her out last time she came and she turned me down. Shows up again two days later(never seen her here and now she pops up twice). I just played it cooled said hey and did me. She looked like she wanted me to come talk to her to be honest. I just did me and blew her off like she did me. Wouldn't you think if she blew me off last time she should be the one to try and talk to me
ExpatInItaly Posted August 17, 2018 Posted August 17, 2018 How old is this girl? If you've asked her out and she's turned you down, I wouldn't bother trying to talk to her again either.
TheFinalWord Posted August 17, 2018 Posted August 17, 2018 How old is this girl? If you've asked her out and she's turned you down, I wouldn't bother trying to talk to her again either. Ditto. It could be just a coincidence. I don't think she is playing games because she could have took you up on your offer...
d0nnivain Posted August 17, 2018 Posted August 17, 2018 She likes you, or at least she did. You messaged her out of the blue. She wondered if that was an invitation back into your life / bed. She showed up where she knew you would be. You talked then did your own thing. Your exact words were: Said hey chit chat a Lil and I went and did my own thing. My take on that is you ignored her. She took that as a sign of disinterest on your part & a tactical mistake on hers by risking showing up. She made lemons out of lemonade & flirted with other people while she was there because you didn't want her. Unless she shows up again, she is not playing games. She was making herself available. You rejected her & now that is over. If anybody was playing games it was you. The idea that 3 months after you "messed around" with someone you messaged her out of the blue to "talk as friends" is manipulative at best. 1
Author Yolosloth Posted August 17, 2018 Author Posted August 17, 2018 Look i like the girl a lot to be honest. She knows that. But she turned me down the other day and to be honest so she should have came to me to talk if she wanted too. I'm not trying to be that weirdo who keeps on bothering her to go out ya know. I put my neck out there and she turned me down so I feel like she needs to put her neck out there.
d0nnivain Posted August 17, 2018 Posted August 17, 2018 When she came to where you were skating it was her way of making up for turning you down. Since you like her, try again.
Author Yolosloth Posted August 17, 2018 Author Posted August 17, 2018 This girl is a solid 10. She knows it. I run a 2 businesses and I'ma say I'm sexy too. I'm not trying to play this puppy dog ****. She is 22 and I'm 26. She knows im into her. The reason we stop talking is due to me getting alopecia areata and my hair started falling out in clumps all over. It hit my ego hard at the time and we were only talking and **** for like a month and half. I know I was acting a little weird and I understand why she would have backed off. But I got my head back on straight. I'm rocking it. Plus it's growing back . We had some good sexual chemistry and we have a **** ton in common I know she felt that **** too. Idk I'm just confused with this turning me down but wanting me ****.
Author Yolosloth Posted August 18, 2018 Author Posted August 18, 2018 And BTW how am I playing games when I'm the one who went to her face and asked her out again. She turned me down then came back around looking like she wanted me to talk to her. She should have came to me end of story. I messaged her complimenting her on a trick she did that day. Putting my neck out there again cause I felt bad lol. No response. I know she wants it but I think I at the end of my rope now. Maybe she just to young
Versacehottie Posted August 19, 2018 Posted August 19, 2018 Coincidence? Yeah I also think not. That said, she came there to hope to keep the momentum going (if you've never seen here there before) from your message and the texting just before. When you "did your own thing" it probably came off as ignoring her after she did stick her neck out to come down there. (that would be sooooo hard--especially she didn't want to look like a stalker). So then she HAD to make it more natural and talk to other people and "do her thing" to make it seem like she was comfortable being there and that she wasn't chasing you. Try to ask her out again. You're the guy so act like it. I think both of you are just letting your pride get in the way. Good luck
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