Hannahhawks87 Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 (edited) Hi, We met about two years ago. He lives about 80 miles away from me, I never really thought much about it when we first met because I was in a relationship with some else at the time. Anyway, we met again on a social event a few days ago and he remembered every little detail I had said to him two years ago. He remembered what I did for a job, and my ear infection I had last time. We spend about two hours alone together, and he was talking about his son, his holidays, his cars, his jobs and how he split from his girlfriend a few months ago. He was always complimenting me, saying I am very good at what I do. He also touched my hips as he squeezed passed me. He never asked me if I had a boyfriend, but he would ask me alsorts of questions about my life. When my group of friends were leaving, I was the only one he hugged. The rest he shuck their hands. The hug felt slightly stiff. Not really awkward, but almost like he didn't know what to do. He also hung around alittle bit before the hug. I didn't get his number or have him on Facebook. I have found him on Facebook, but I am too scared to add him. I might be seeing him again in October. Do you think with this brief description he was interested? Edited August 15, 2018 by Hannahhawks87 Wrong title
d0nnivain Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 yes I think he is interested. Q is why are you wondering? What makes you uncertain?
Author Hannahhawks87 Posted August 15, 2018 Author Posted August 15, 2018 Because I have only met him a couple of times and wanted to double check. Just don't want to make a fool out of myself.
d0nnivain Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 You aren't going to declare your undying love for him. Just add him on FB & see where that goes.
basil67 Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 Because I have only met him a couple of times and wanted to double check. Just don't want to make a fool out of myself. Part of being successful in life is not being scared to take a risk or make a fool of ourselves! If you're interested, send a friend request and tell him it was nice to see him again. 2
Lotsgoingon Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 There is no such thing as making a fool of yourself in this situation (well of course, there is ... but not in the way you think). The trick here is to react with honesty and proportion. Translation: Send him a note saying I enjoyed talking to you. Would be nice to get together some time. Now, you're so scared here that you don't say the obvious: that you are interested in him. It's like you want to find out whether he is interested first. Can I tease you here? ... just a little? ... You know this is like first grade right. Friend one: I don't like you. Friend two: I don't you neither and I didn't like you first. All a simple text/note says is ... literally you enjoyed talking to him. You're interested enough to want to spend more time with him. Period. Doesn't mean you're madly in love ... or that you have the engagement ring picked out or the house, the mortgage company, the names of the two kids with him, the kids' college majors. Quit trying to hide. There is no hiding. Even if you hide in life, people will notice you ... and notice that you're hiding. Send him a note ... see what happens. Of course, you should friend him on FB. Why wouldn't you? You think he's going to see a friend request and think, OMG, she's madly in love with me and is gonna kidnap me and I don't have money for the engagement ring ... and I don't like her. She should leave me alone. You think he's going to think all that based on a fb request? Relax and text him. Express your interest ... see what happens. God forbid he think that ... you actually like him!
Author Hannahhawks87 Posted August 18, 2018 Author Posted August 18, 2018 I've added him on Facebook, about 30 hrs ago and I still have been accepted or declined. Starting to feel abit down hearted.
mortensorchid Posted August 19, 2018 Posted August 19, 2018 He sounds like if he mentioned his split from his gf and remembering things from the past. Touching you as well.
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