933KJL Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 So, I have been to two dinners and two movies with this woman who is in the process of a divorce. Nothing serious, no sex yet. Today she calls me and says that her estranged hubby "knows all about me" and I am the reason she is leaving him. Now, I did not meet her until 8 months after she moved out and had already purchased her own condo. At this point we are more or less just friends, but this big bad hubby is threatening (her) to kick my ass! I mean come on--he claims to know where I live, and all about me, apparently has access to her telephone records (yeah a few long phone calls) and has gone off the deep end. I am slightly concerned in that she has mentioned that if she trys to get child support (her son lives with her 90% of the time) he will physically come after her. Class act huh? But that's about it. Just a rant and a sigh.
Art_Critic Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 Hi 933, 2 dinners and 2 movies do not make a relationship. It sounds to me that she has embellished your dating her to her estranged hubby to make him jealous and it has worked. She has a huge drama level built into her. I would consider telling her that you don't need this kind of drama in your life and tell her it was nice but see ya later. If he contacts you in anyway and threatens you. Call the police and get it on record. I hope it doesn't escalate any further.. Emotions can run high in an estranged situation..and since she is using you to further her own agenda you need to keep your eye on the ball Oh.. All this and you never got to dip your noodle
bluechocolate Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 Sounds to me like you are being sucked into a sick game that she is playing with her husband. Run, don't walk.
Author 933KJL Posted September 5, 2005 Author Posted September 5, 2005 No she did not tell him. I am friends with her sister and she actually fixed us up, but apparently he is just not willing to accept that she is divorcing him. She just called me to let me know that he called her to let her know. And a couple of dates and no dip wicking does not make a relationship. And, if he does show up, he may be in trouble depending on who is with me. It seems a lot of (well most) of my friends are into the law enforcement area and usually armed--one is on the presidential detail for Bush, another is special forces reassigned to NSA now for an injury, and my other really good friend is a sniper for the DC swat team. All are sickos who love to f*** with someone if given the chance. I think it is kind of humorous--she moved out in January, bought a condo in May, and met me in early August.
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