Does she really like me?

[grazyexes]

This girl I date now was together with my friend for two months, until he ended it. One month after that I asked her out and we had sex on same night. She has been texting me every day since then, for one month. I never really need to initiate contact because she always do it.

 

However, im always the one who asks her to come over, or suggest that I should come to her place and sleep next to her or something like that. She is always happy when we are together and cuddles me like grazy on bed. We kiss alot and have sex often but not every time.

 

I feel like she doesnt like me as much as she did like my friend. She was sleeping next to him almost every night. She didnt even care if she had to wake up early if he had to go to work next morning. Im not sure but I think that she was the one who always asked if she could come over to his place.

 

If I ask her to come over when I have to wake up early next morning, she doesnt usually come. Also if im with her and her ex shows up, she starts to be really physical with me almost like shes trying to make him jealous or something. I usually act cold in situations like this.

 

We are only one month in so should I give this more time? Or do you think that this relationship will never work.

[iVisa]

Don't compare your relationship to their.

 

It's hard situation because didn't have enough time to forget about him... You should think about this earlier ans gave her more time.

[grazyexes]

They slept together 6-7 times a week no matter what the situation was.

 

We are sleeping in same bed 1-3 times a week if I set it up. It feels like shes 100% into me when we do it tho.

 

It just doesnt sound good when I compare these. Should I back off and see what happens.

[coolheadal]

They slept together 6-7 times a week no matter what the situation was.

 

We are sleeping in same bed 1-3 times a week if I set it up. It feels like shes 100% into me when we do it tho.

 

It just doesnt sound good when I compare these. Should I back off and see what happens.

 

I am confused are you sharing her with this other guy? Or she's with you 100% and not with him 0%?

 

Sounds like your being used so she can get back with him. The way your saying this to us here sounds like she's into him more than you. String you a long if a woman wants you she would do anything to be with you. When they don't want you as much you see the end result in texting us here.

[grazyexes]

I am confused are you sharing her with this other guy? Or she's with you 100% and not with him 0%?

 

Sounds like your being used so she can get back with him. The way your saying this to us here sounds like she's into him more than you. String you a long if a woman wants you she would do anything to be with you. When they don't want you as much you see the end result in texting us here.

 

No we are not sharing anything she has only been with me after their two month relationship ended. You are right, woman would do anything to be with a guy if she loves her. Things are going great when we are together but I feel like shes not making enough effort.

[stillafool]

Why did your friend break up with her?

[grazyexes]

Why did your friend break up with her?

 

He didnt have feelings anymore.

[coolheadal]

No we are not sharing anything she has only been with me after their two month relationship ended. You are right, woman would do anything to be with a guy if she loves her. Things are going great when we are together but I feel like shes not making enough effort.

 

She's not because she thinks of him where your not around. This will in time go away if he doesn't reappear when you two are together. As you say when he's around she tries to win him back through you making him jealous using you as the bate. That's something you have to worry about as you see she's still into him and that's why she doesn't jump at you by doing things first with you. You have to be the one. That's why you have to be concern. She wants him back!Until then your the one she has only, so until something better comes along she'll stick with you and by then she'll jump ship for that other guy! Your friend still has some control with her. That love will never die, it's too deep, Deeper that you think.

[grazyexes]

She's not because she thinks of him where your not around. This will in time go away if he doesn't reappear when you two are together. As you say when he's around she tries to win him back through you making him jealous using you as the bate. That's something you have to worry about as you see she's still into him and that's why she doesn't jump at you by doing things first with you. You have to be the one. That's why you have to be concern. She wants him back!Until then your the one she has only, so until something better comes along she'll stick with you and by then she'll jump ship for that other guy! Your friend still has some control with her. That love will never die, it's too deep, Deeper that you think.

 

Hard to believe that it could be so deep just after two months of dating. Shes very physical with me when hes not around too, and I have heard her saying one of her friends that its over between him and her.

Maybe she just wants to show him that someone else wants her? Idk maybe I will just have wait and see if she starts to set up the dates.

[coolheadal]

Hard to believe that it could be so deep just after two months of dating. Shes very physical with me when hes not around too, and I have heard her saying one of her friends that its over between him and her.

Maybe she just wants to show him that someone else wants her? Idk maybe I will just have wait and see if she starts to set up the dates.

 

But she's not putting in the effort with you. You have to get her going. When she was with your friend she put in the effort. Do you see the difference. Of course you will never have what they had shared together. Why did you friend ended it with her? Did he explain why? You need to get some inside to whatever happen to them both. So you know something that she didn't share with you. It's about you and her but you said they had more sex than your having with her? Why is that? Could it be she was so deeply in love with him or deeply involved with him. She wanted it and she wanted it badly enough to have so many times in a week. Your only getting 1/2 of what they had. Don't settle for 1/2 you want it all. But that's the issue here you only have 1/2 of her as he had 100% of her. Why is that? What did he do different than you? This might never be solved. Her heart hear love her sexual pleasure was with him. It's not the same with you. You will never be him can't be because you are you and he is he. She wants him and she can't have him!

 

Find out why he left and go from there. If you want to continue with her that's your choice. But know this in the back of your mind she still craves for him and she won't get him back unless he hurts you in the process. That's why is not a good ideal to go sloppy seconds from your mate (friend) girl who is has been seeing dating and had sex with. He dump her for for whatever reason and you jump in and now have her to yourself. But what did you get though? Is she really into you but only 1/2 of what he had with her.

Edited August 15, 2018 by coolheadal

[grazyexes]

But she's not putting in the effort with you. You have to get her going. When she was with your friend she put in the effort. Do you see the difference. Of course you will never have what they had shared together. Why did you friend ended it with her? Did he explain why? You need to get some inside to whatever happen to them both. So you know something that she didn't share with you. It's about you and her but you said they had more sex than your having with her? Why is that? Could it be she was so deeply in love with him or deeply involved with him. She wanted it and she wanted it badly enough to have so many times in a week. Your only getting 1/2 of what they had. Don't settle for 1/2 you want it all. But that's the issue here you only have 1/2 of her as he had 100% of her. Why is that? What did he do different than you? This might never be solved. Her heart hear love her sexual pleasure was with him. It's not the same with you. You will never be him can't be because you are you and he is he. She wants him and she can't have him!

 

Find out why he left and go from there. If you want to continue with her that's your choice. But know this in the back of your mind she still craves for him and she won't get him back unless he hurts you in the process. That's why is not a good ideal to go sloppy seconds from your mate (friend) girl who is has been seeing dating and had sex with. He dump her for for whatever reason and you jump in and now have her to yourself. But what did you get though? Is she really into you but only 1/2 of what he had with her.

 

You have alot of really good points. My friend is not very experienced with women, so they mostly just slept next to eachother. Im actually having alot more sex with her than he ever did. He left her because he didnt trust her and she smokes which is a deal breaker for him.

 

When we cuddle she takes long eye contact with me and after few minutes she tells me how good it feels to be on my arms. Shes not a player type of girl who would say something like this just for fun. Its confusing I know.