Author caitlyn5 Posted August 14, 2018 Author Posted August 14, 2018 Great job!!!!! I feel your confidence ... no, you weren't crazy. Please continue to build on this insight ... When something doesn't feel right in a relationship, address it. I knew he would apologize! ... Knew it! ... OMG, a mean idea just crossed my mind ... of course don't do this ... But what if you sent a message saying I would break up with you in person, but I don't want to bother EX. So I'm doing it quietly. Bye! I should have told him that. Don’t want to bother her or embarrass you in front of her. You both can be quiet and do whatever you want together now.
kendahke Posted August 14, 2018 Posted August 14, 2018 She's not his ex. Despite what he's telling you, she's not his ex. He considers her before he considers you, so in his life, you have to understand you're #2 for as long as he's posting up in her house with her. Any reason why he's not living with either some other roommate or by himself? Why her and not a guy friend? 1
MountainGirl111 Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 You should never EVER live your life walking on eggshells for ANYONE!! 1
Author caitlyn5 Posted August 15, 2018 Author Posted August 15, 2018 I shouldn’t. I have received emails from him saying he was wrong. Wish I could believe him.
preraph Posted August 15, 2018 Posted August 15, 2018 I mean, maybe they're just friends, but if so they wouldn't care who heard who having sex and stuff. It's also possible he's mooching off her for a place to live and she's paying expenses and letting him but only under the condition he can't just move another person in or be too intrusive. So does he work and pay his own way or not? He's acting like she's his mother instead of an ex, but that doesn't mean they never have sex.
Author caitlyn5 Posted August 16, 2018 Author Posted August 16, 2018 They’ve had sex a few times while I wasn’t there. I’m sure he’s not over her and knows he has it good where he’s at and wanted to mooch off and stay with her. I’m not going to be strung along. I want someone to love me and me only.
MountainGirl111 Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 I shouldn’t. I have received emails from him saying he was wrong. Wish I could believe him. In all likelihood he will try to backpedal on this because he now realizes he made a mistake. He shouldn't have expected you to be okay with his living arrangement. The fact he did expect you to be okay with it tells you quite a lot about his character.
Author caitlyn5 Posted August 17, 2018 Author Posted August 17, 2018 And I tried my best to seem ok with it. But once I realized. And guess what? Now I’m the bad guy, or in my case girl, because I wouldn’t put up with it. And I’m being made the loser because I wouldn’t put up with it. Hey, if he wants to smear my name let him. He’s just making himself look worse.
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