Nightblood313 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 I ignore her text for two-days, ( Just because i didn't wanna come off needy, and she was being very cold and boring). Later on she confronted me about it, and told me why i took two days to reply to her, I told her because i was busy! ( She seemed pissed about it ). fast-forward.. Two weeks later Which is 3 days ago! she's now ignoring my text ( " she read it " But didn't reply and now its been 3 days, since i haven't heard anything from her ) My last text was a text, that she could of answered and kept the conversation going. ( But she chose to ignore me).. I'm 100% sure she ignoring me, I think its absolutely ridiculous! Since she wants us to be close friends, and be on good terms. This is someone i want to get back with, but with her playing games.. Its becoming too difficult to deal with or even be worth of waiting anymore... I do have patience, but i'm a little confuse on the fact she isn't even trying to be friends, or give me another shot!! What should i do?? I was thinking of ignoring her, twice the amount of days she going to ignore me for.. I know she going to text back!
Scarlett.O'hara Posted August 12, 2018 Posted August 12, 2018 So you are angry about her doing the exact same thing you did to her? How is that fair? This all sounds petty and trivial. If you can't even communicate like two mature adults, how can possibly get back together and have a healthy relationship? It would never work. You may still care about each other, but that doesn't mean the issues that drove you apart aren't still there. Maybe all these games stem from mistrust and unresolved resentments from the break up? Only you can answer that. If she just wants to be friends and you don't then it is going to cause a lot of frustration and confusion. Perhaps you need some time and space to figure what you really want. Once you figure that out, you need to be honest and open in your communication. No more games.
NopeNah Posted August 12, 2018 Posted August 12, 2018 Why even have contact with her at all? either be upfront ONE TIME and leave it..or continue this childish back/fourth nonsense you both are doing. Personally..I'd block her and get on with my life,but some people thrive off of drama. I no longer care for it at all.
RN2017 Posted August 12, 2018 Posted August 12, 2018 I think the both of you guys are being very immature. If you want this girl back just be honest and up front the only she can do is tell you she doesn’t want the same thing. Yes, rejection hurts from someone you care about but at least you will know where you stand and then you can move on with no regrets. You don’t want 10 years to past you by meet up with and regret you never told her . Trust I have experienced that with an ex of mine . Also she could feel the same way just waiting on you to ask/or tell her. These type of games can cost you . Put your pride aside and say what you need to say to her. And don’t be mad that she is playing your game.... doesn’t mean she doesn’t care it’s her pride in the way too 1
fromheart Posted August 12, 2018 Posted August 12, 2018 I ignore her text for two-days, ( Just because i didn't wanna come off needy, and she was being very cold and boring). Later on she confronted me about it, and told me why i took two days to reply to her, I told her because i was busy! ( She seemed pissed about it ). fast-forward.. Two weeks later Which is 3 days ago! she's now ignoring my text ( " she read it " But didn't reply and now its been 3 days, since i haven't heard anything from her ) My last text was a text, that she could of answered and kept the conversation going. ( But she chose to ignore me).. I'm 100% sure she ignoring me, I think its absolutely ridiculous! Since she wants us to be close friends, and be on good terms. This is someone i want to get back with, but with her playing games.. Its becoming too difficult to deal with or even be worth of waiting anymore... I do have patience, but i'm a little confuse on the fact she isn't even trying to be friends, or give me another shot!! What should i do?? I was thinking of ignoring her, twice the amount of days she going to ignore me for.. I know she going to text back! Well done for ignoring her when she becomes cold. Men, take note. If you want her back tell her so, but your not interested in friendship as thats not what you want. Then NC forever. To tell the truth though, her coldness will probably get worse with age unless she has psychiatric help.
d0nnivain Posted August 12, 2018 Posted August 12, 2018 If you want to reconcile you have to talk, promptly, not 2-3 days later. Ignoring her for 2 days is you playing games. If she is now playing a game, it's the one you taught her.
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