whatthe34 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 So my boyfriend received a voicemail from who he said is a family member. He claims it was family business and non of my business. He refused to let me listen and claims it was nasty. I got very angry with him for not allowing me to listen. Who was in the wrong? him or me?
ericw899 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 So my boyfriend received a voicemail from who he said is a family member. He claims it was family business and non of my business. He refused to let me listen and claims it was nasty. I got very angry with him for not allowing me to listen. Who was in the wrong? him or me? You are in the wrong. If it was in fact a business matter, especially involving family, it is no ones business but his. It's not like he is hiding messages from an ex, this is just a personal matter and maybe by what was said in the message hurt his feelings and would be embarrassed for anyone to hear. 1
Gretchen12 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 Oh no way! It's so disrespectful to even just ask to listen to it. 1
introverted1 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 Is there a missing piece to this story? Why would you ask to listen to your bf's voicemail messages in the first place?
Author whatthe34 Posted August 11, 2018 Author Posted August 11, 2018 I guess I'm in the wrong and am not afraid to admit it.
carhill Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 Welcome to LS.... Do you normally listen to your BF's voicemails, read his e-mails, texts, chats, etc? Does he similarly interact with yours? Trying to get some context here. 1
kendahke Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 So my boyfriend received a voicemail from who he said is a family member. He claims it was family business and non of my business. He refused to let me listen and claims it was nasty. I got very angry with him for not allowing me to listen. Who was in the wrong? him or me? You. It wasn't any of your business. Period. 1
smackie9 Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 Just me but: If my husband got a horrible voicemail from a friend or family member, I wouldn't question it if he didn't want to involve me. He's a grown a$$ man he can handle things on his own without me giving him an opinion. If he wants to include me I will listen and be supportive, because I always have his back. Do you have a habit of always inquiring who's called him, who just sent him a text, etc?
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