Britney25 Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 So on my second date we had our first kiss but he went all in and used tongue too...is he being a little to forward? I didnt feel comfortable but every time he initiated a kiss he had to do tongue. Is he really that into me or just too horny? Help a girl out lol 1
LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 So on my second date we had our first kiss but he went all in and used tongue too...is he being a little to forward? I didnt feel comfortable but every time he initiated a kiss he had to do tongue. Is he really that into me or just too horny? Help a girl out lol It's how he differentiates you from kissing his mother - i.e. it is romantic. He is I would imagine into you yes - why else would you do that? If you are not comfortable with it then you need to tell him. Do you find him attractive? If the answer is yes, then what is the problem? If you want a peck on the cheek and a 'you look nice dear' then go see your grandmother! 1
Author Britney25 Posted August 8, 2018 Author Posted August 8, 2018 It's how he differentiates you from kissing his mother - i.e. it is romantic. He is I would imagine into you yes - why else would you do that? If you are not comfortable with it then you need to tell him. Do you find him attractive? If the answer is yes, then what is the problem? If you want a peck on the cheek and you look nice dear then go see your grandmother! No sorry I just am scared that the way his kissing like that he will want to get me Into bed and that it. So hes just showing his attraction to me? 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 No sorry I just am scared that the way his kissing like that he will want to get me Into bed and that it. So hes just showing his attraction to me? It's a normal progression of physical intimacy.
basil67 Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 No sorry I just am scared that the way his kissing like that he will want to get me Into bed and that it. So hes just showing his attraction to me? Progression towards sex is normal. Why are you concerned about it?
Author Britney25 Posted August 8, 2018 Author Posted August 8, 2018 Progression towards sex is normal. Why are you concerned about it? Its because I just thought the second date is a bit quick for tongue action, sorry I'm 25 and hes 38 so maybe hes just moving quicker for me. 1
BaileyB Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 I would be a little disappointed if my first kiss with someone was a French kiss... There is a certain skill involved in kissing and it's nice to build up the kiss and develop greater intimacy... I don't want his tongue in my mouth every time... 2
smackie9 Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 I'm full on kisser frenchie frenchie and that's normal stuff for me but isn't for you. Everyone is different. Just tell him you want to slow things down, especially with the kissing. If he listens, and is understanding he's a keeper. 1
rightondude Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 sorry I'm 25 and hes 38 so maybe hes just moving quicker for me. ummm yeah of course he wants to tap dat. Now it's up to you if and when but yeah. This fact now makes your first post make complete sense. This guy has it down for how you pull a younger woman. 1
ElKay Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 I read an article that said guys prefer using tongue more, on average, than women, since they need more to "taste" the genetic compatibility of a potential mate. So he might just really like you but it doesn't mean he'll force you into bed.
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 ummm yeah of course he wants to tap dat. Now it's up to you if and when but yeah. This fact now makes your first post make complete sense. This guy has it down for how you pull a younger woman. So are you saying hes trying to bed me asap? After we ended the date he offered to drive me home and he french kissed me again saying see you soon. It's the next day and no text yet although he did tell me he is going on a business trip. I'm just trying to decipher if he wants to date me or just bed me. 1
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 I read an article that said guys prefer using tongue more, on average, than women, since they need more to "taste" the genetic compatibility of a potential mate. So he might just really like you but it doesn't mean he'll force you into bed. Yes I read that too actually lol
alphamale Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 "taste" the genetic compatibility? WTF?? the only thing I taste is mentos and creamed spinach 3
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 So are you saying hes trying to bed me asap? After we ended the date he offered to drive me home and he french kissed me again saying see you soon. It's the next day and no text yet although he did tell me he is going on a business trip. I'm just trying to decipher if he wants to date me or just bed me. You are thinking WAY too deeply about this. Kissing almost always involves tongue, and while his goal is probably eventually to "bed you," it's not at all weird that he's french kissing you. As a woman, I would find it quite odd if a man was NOT using tongue while kissing me for the second time. Is this the first time you've "french kissed" a man? 1
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 You are thinking WAY too deeply about this. Kissing almost always involves tongue, and while his goal is probably eventually to "bed you," it's not at all weird that he's french kissing you. As a woman, I would find it quite odd if a man was NOT using tongue while kissing me for the second time. Is this the first time you've "french kissed" a man? Not the first time just not that quickly 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 Not the first time just not that quickly OK, then you're just more reserved and conservative than he is. Talk to him about it .
rightondude Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 So are you saying hes trying to bed me asap? After we ended the date he offered to drive me home and he french kissed me again saying see you soon. It's the next day and no text yet although he did tell me he is going on a business trip. I'm just trying to decipher if he wants to date me or just bed me. I am not saying he is "just" trying to bed you. I'm just saying I doubt he would mind if it was ASAP.
surferchic Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 Britany25... My impression of your thread is that you’re just not that into him. Could that be accurate? I’m just saying...Otherwise, it would feel natural and just good and perhaps you wouldn’t be so “concerned”. How do you feel about this guy? Personally I’ve been in your shoes and I wasn’t really feeling the guy who tried French kissing me. So I kept my mouth closed and just told him to slow down and take things slower.
Gretchen12 Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 It's a good way for a guy to gauge your level of interest. Guy I really like does it - wow! I'd fall for him after that. Guy I don't like that much does it - too soon, I'd pull back and maybe stop seeing him. I think a guy should do it (or try to), then he'll know.
losangelena Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 So are you saying hes trying to bed me asap? After we ended the date he offered to drive me home and he french kissed me again saying see you soon. It's the next day and no text yet although he did tell me he is going on a business trip. I'm just trying to decipher if he wants to date me or just bed me. There's usually only one way to find out ...
Juha Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 I would say wither you are not really into this guy all that much or you are just mismatched as he is very open and forward and you are not. So, how much do you really like this guy if you don't even want to french kiss him?
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 I am not saying he is "just" trying to bed you. I'm just saying I doubt he would mind if it was ASAP. So he contact me first thou after this second date?
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 It's a good way for a guy to gauge your level of interest. Guy I really like does it - wow! I'd fall for him after that. Guy I don't like that much does it - too soon, I'd pull back and maybe stop seeing him. I think a guy should do it (or try to), then he'll know. I get it. So should I wait for him to contact me after this second date? We left on a note of see you very soon. He said it.
Author Britney25 Posted August 9, 2018 Author Posted August 9, 2018 Britany25... My impression of your thread is that you’re just not that into him. Could that be accurate? I’m just saying...Otherwise, it would feel natural and just good and perhaps you wouldn’t be so “concerned”. How do you feel about this guy? Personally I’ve been in your shoes and I wasn’t really feeling the guy who tried French kissing me. So I kept my mouth closed and just told him to slow down and take things slower. Yes that's true...I'm not sure about him yet. But I want to see him again. Should I wait on him to text ne?
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