ThatOneGuy Posted September 4, 2005 Posted September 4, 2005 Hello there fellow loveshackers. What’s going on? This is like my first time needing advice, Im just at a loss. Im 16 right now, I go to high school. Currently I have a very amazing girlfriend, Whom I love very much. Our 1 year anniversary is in about 5 days. (It’s the second day after our school starts, How lame is that?) Well, I want to do something special, But im not sure what. I don’t have a car or anything, And neither does she. Also it’s a school day, So I can’t even just spend the entire day with her. Plus she is taking AP classes and whatnot, Way overworked, Trying to be a teacher. Everyone I have been talking to has either said Dinner, Movie, stuff like that. The problem is we do that ALL THE TIME! I mean, I want some points for originality here. I get her flowers all the time too. *Sigh* I asked a few of her “Closest” friends and came up with “Uhh, I dunno, That’s a tough one”. So now im turning to you guys, Hopefully one of you has a few ideas I can take to heart. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
littlekitty Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 How about a moonlit picnic by a river or something like that? Pick up her favourite foods, and a blanket and take her somewhere romantic?
Author ThatOneGuy Posted September 5, 2005 Author Posted September 5, 2005 Well I was thinking about that, But What I really wanted to do was just spend the day with her, And do a bunch of different things. Do you think It I would be an a**h*** if I said "Well, Happy aniversary, But lets do something this saturday".?
littlekitty Posted September 5, 2005 Posted September 5, 2005 Not at all. Maybe the better way to phrase it would be... 'Darling, I want so much to give you a special anniversary and I feel it would be wonderful if we could celebrate a whole day together and do some special things that I have planned for us. Therefore would be willing to celebrate a couple of days later when we can do all these wonderful things I have planned for you?' I'm sure if you put it nicely and let her know it's only because she means so much you want to spoil her, that she'll be more than agreeable. I would. Maybe suggest something smaller for the actual evening if you feel she would be very disappointed not to see you that night!
Author ThatOneGuy Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 Well, A good friend of mine sugjested "Mini-golf". Now, Instantly I thought "Jesus H Christ that's a horrable Idea". But the more I thought about it, The more I realized my girlfriend is really into dorky stuff like that. She loves to do things that couples in movies do and whatnot. I dunno, Im strained for idea's on small things to do on the actuall day. By the way, Thanks for your imput, Your a lifesaver.
littlekitty Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 Well just remember that all girls love doing the dorky things couples do in movies!! Thing we like about these types of activities is that they are done as a couple and we are having fun with our loved one. Oh and you can try and impress us as well!! How about Mini Golf, an Arcade, Rowing Boats, Picnic, Horse Riding...?!! Well good luck anyway! And well done for putting so much effort in!
Author ThatOneGuy Posted September 6, 2005 Author Posted September 6, 2005 Well I honestly try my very best to make her happy. When It comes down to it I don't think that she would mind if we didn't do anything at all, She would just be fine with seeing me is all. But I prefer to go out and do something suprising that she would like, And make sure at every chance to tell her how much I love her. I dunno, I just want everything to work out perfectly.
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