How to end a relationship with a GF who has a separation anxiety?

[Crow795]

Hi,

 

I got myself sucked into a bad relationship and I have trouble ending it.

I started dating a girl who at first was a really good match but

as the relationship went she started to revile more and more about her

self and that she was suicidal and have a separation anxiety,

She begged me not to you leave her and every time I tried to bring my

self to end the relationship, she is pulling that magic card and I can't do anything since I am afraid she might do something to her self.

We are only dating for a about 2 month and I want to end it.

I don't love her, and I an not a Doctor to try and help her.

I also know she is going to a therapist who is trying to help her cope with her fears.

 

I will be grateful for any suggestions which might help me to exit that relationship.

Thinking about her hurting herself really scares me.

 

Thanks,

[FMW]

Do you know her family or her good friends? Maybe talk to them and let them know so they can keep an eye on her.

[Crow795]

Do you know her family or her good friends? Maybe talk to them and let them know so they can keep an eye on her.

 

I never met her parents or her close friends,

As far as I know, her close friends do aware of her situation and try to comfort her.

I even can't end it since she always bring up her anxiety to try and stop

me.

So I have no idea who to approach her in the first place with out being very

hard and painful on her.

[stillafool]

First of all there is no way to get away from her without hurting her and experiencing guilt. You have every right to move on if this relationship is not working for you. It has only been 2 months so she is being a bit silly acting like you've been together 2/3 years. Tell her you are leaving and have called her parents to look after her; then leave. When you leave do not try to be her friend to make her feel better because that will just keep her stuck. Leave and move on.

[jdaniel]

Well I have ended it, Tried to highlight the reasons why we are bad together

and let her think about it for a while.

She agreed that we should stop seeing each other since I am not supportive enough about her mental issues.

Well.. Good day to her.

 

btw I have heard that this site should help is such situations.. I heard wrong.

[stillafool]

 

btw I have heard that this site should help is such situations.. I heard wrong.

 

How did we not help you? What were you expecting?