basil67 Posted October 19, 2018 Posted October 19, 2018 It doesn't matter what she was expecting. What matters is what you were comfortable with. You didn't make a move, so I'm guessing that you weren't comfortable doing so. And that's OK. Cleaning your place before guests is just about appearing to be like a competent adult. Checking if you like pets is also about making sure your guests are comfortable. Opening wine is something I do with anyone I'm happy to talk with. None of it indicates that I want to shag the person visiting. As far as signals go, if she doesn't snuggle in close next to you, don't bother. 1
Author cooldude123 Posted November 3, 2018 Author Posted November 3, 2018 So I have 2 girls in my life now. Both long distance. And interestingly both are matured and understanding. It appears if you simply ignore them for a while from your end respect simply grows in them for us. I am interested in one girl. She is too. However she is not making much moves although I am insisting that we settle down.
Mardelis Posted November 3, 2018 Posted November 3, 2018 However she is not making much moves although I am insisting that we settle down. You need to find a balance between pushing too hard and keeping it cool. Ignoring is over the top, and so is "insisting she settle down". I mean, what is that all about?
Author cooldude123 Posted November 3, 2018 Author Posted November 3, 2018 She is kinda undecided to move further ahead to date. So I am unsure how to proceed.
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