Author AnnaGr Posted August 5, 2018 Author Posted August 5, 2018 Even if the person hearing this info would otherwise question your morals, they are far more appalled by the fact that somebody who was once a trusted confident / intimate BF would spread your secrets around simply to hurt you. Well you would hope so. I was at a work party Friday night and chatting to a nice couple I me there. A guy who works in the same office as me comes up with his wife and they join in. We're all laughing and having a great time and then the guy from my office just blurts out that he's heard I've had threesomes in the past and him and his wife want me to go home with them. They assumed to other couple were in the know as well and wanted to get in first. How embarrassing. It's like I was a piece if meat up for grabs and they were seeing who could get in first. As it turns out everyone from my office knows and now everyone from the whole company does. I'm sure some think my ex is a jerk but most don't even know where the gossip started and it's just something that has gone around the office. Even one of my good friends at work, I call my work wife, questioned me after she found out because I had been out to a concert with her husband that she didn't want to go to. She wanted to know if anything happened or if I was interested in him. That hurts. I have never, nor would I ever cheat but rumours get embellished and now that's my reputation. I though I knew my ex. How wrong I was. All because the little boy couldn't have his precious little threesome. Now he's home tossing off into a tissue.
d0nnivain Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Yuck. Your co-worker is an a$$! Because this was work I would pull him aside on Monday & read him the riot act. I'd start with telling him how inappropriate he statements were at work event specifically & assure him if he ever says another word about what he thinks he knows about your sex life that he will find himself on the wrong end of a sexual harassment complaint. In this zero tolerance age, you don't have to put up with this at work. Do keep a note book with the exact date, location & people involved so when you have to file in a few months you have all the details. If your own "work wife" is now wondering that you want to have a 3-some with her & her husband, you probably need to polish off your resume. You may want to have a conversation with your manager to see if you can shut down this gossip or at least lay the ground work for a wrongful termination complaint if the rumors get more traction. 1
BaileyB Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Well you would hope so. I was at a work party Friday night and chatting to a nice couple I me there. A guy who works in the same office as me comes up with his wife and they join in. We're all laughing and having a great time and then the guy from my office just blurts out that he's heard I've had threesomes in the past and him and his wife want me to go home with them. They assumed to other couple were in the know as well and wanted to get in first. How embarrassing. It's like I was a piece if meat up for grabs and they were seeing who could get in first. As it turns out everyone from my office knows and now everyone from the whole company does. I'm sure some think my ex is a jerk but most don't even know where the gossip started and it's just something that has gone around the office. Even one of my good friends at work, I call my work wife, questioned me after she found out because I had been out to a concert with her husband that she didn't want to go to. She wanted to know if anything happened or if I was interested in him. That hurts. I have never, nor would I ever cheat but rumours get embellished and now that's my reputation. I though I knew my ex. How wrong I was. All because the little boy couldn't have his precious little threesome. Now he's home tossing off into a tissue. It hurts, but this too shall pass... Hold your head up and give it some time. The guy who asked you to go home with him and his wife - he's a jerk! Now you know that about him, and you can steer clear. You have done nothing wrong. (Except, place your trust in a man who was not worthy of your love and trust). Remember that. This too shall pass... That should be your mantra for the days to come... This too, shall pass...
BaileyB Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Yuck. Your co-worker is an a$$! Because this was work I would pull him aside on Monday & read him the riot act. I'd start with telling him how inappropriate he statements were at work event specifically & assure him if he ever says another word about what he thinks he knows about your sex life that he will find himself on the wrong end of a sexual harassment complaint. Absolutely. That should get him to back off fairly quickly.
Veronica73 Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Ugh. People are horrible. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with all of this.
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