Kris_351 Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Okay I was with this girl for over a year off and on, a few months after getting together she got pregnant by me we had a relationship issues small misunderstandings here and there. But she got her parents involved in it and they pretty much broke ass up she ended up moving in with them I ended up moving in with one of my friends. After that a few months went by and we didn't talk we ended up getting back together and I found out that she had slept with her ex while we were separated and she was pregnant at that time. Then about 2 months ago we had a plan to do the baby reveal but her parents stepped in and they had the baby reveal at their home to which I was uninvited and the same thing occurred during the baby shower they had the baby shower at their home and again I was uninvited. She just recently had the baby a few days ago and again I was not permitted to come to the hospital to be by her side during her giving birth since that happened I haven't spoken to her in about 3 days.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 OP, why do her parents dislike you so much? Do they just blame you for the pregnancy or is there something more to it? You need to speak to a lawyer. Assuming that the baby is indeed yours, you have rights at the father. Are you not upset at being cut out of your own baby's life and not even having met your child? You appear to be more bummed that you haven't spoken to your ex. What about the baby?
Author Kris_351 Posted August 5, 2018 Author Posted August 5, 2018 I'm definitely bummed about not being a part of the baby's life and being cut out an even time I think about it. It upsets me to the point that I want to snap but that won't get me anywhere. Her parents are very controlling she has an older sister who's never had a job never had a boyfriend doesn't even have a driver's license and just sits at home all day and her parents house and she's 34 years old. but one of the reasons our parents don't like me is because when we got together she pretty much distance yourself from them and they blame me for it but it was her who didn't want to be around them anymore. A they've just pretty much been looking for any and every reason to try and come between us and break us. Both of her parents work for the county and the state so going into the courts and getting a lawyer is pretty much not going to help me much. One is a corrections officer and the other is an attorney. So the best way that I can be with my daughter unfortunately it is to go through the baby's mother.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 Both of her parents work for the county and the state so going into the courts and getting a lawyer is pretty much not going to help me much. One is a corrections officer and the other is an attorney. So the best way that I can be with my daughter unfortunately it is to go through the baby's mother. Where did you get this idea? It is false that simply because they work in the legal field you are powerless to do anything. They cannot legally prevent you from meeting your own child. Call an attorney. If you care about that baby, you will get on the phone with one first thing Monday morning. You appear to have little understanding of your rights as a parent.
Author Kris_351 Posted August 5, 2018 Author Posted August 5, 2018 Well I'm definitely going to find out what can be done on Monday, I've already gone online and scheduled consultations with a few attorneys for tomorrow.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 6, 2018 Posted August 6, 2018 Well I'm definitely going to find out what can be done on Monday, I've already gone online and scheduled consultations with a few attorneys for tomorrow. Good, you very much need to. You are nowhere near as powerless as you seem to believe, in the eyes of the law. In the event that you intend to walk away from this baby (and I hope that you are not considering that?) you would need a lawyer to sign over your parental rights, regardless.
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