MP22 Posted September 4, 2005 Posted September 4, 2005 first off I apologize if this has been over with before for others. well I like this girl. she's shy/quiet and very indecisive. someone that's like that,is the chances greater for that person to back off or show as if they aren't interested but really do like the person alot? plus other things going on in the person's life at the moment to ruin it also. thank you for any responses
BonneChatte Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 Your post is a little hard to understand...but I'm going to try! Shy and indecisive girls (just like shy and indecisive guys) are usually insecure and have a HUGE fear of rejection. So she may never ask you out...you need to make the first move! As to whether she will give you any hints about her feelings (or lack of) for you, well she may flirt, but very subtly...so you may not even notice it. She’s definitely not going to strip down and say "I'm yours!" if that the kind of clue you need. You should approach her with care...don't put her on the spot. I seem to be saying this a lot, but just ask her to a casual activity you'd both enjoy...maybe something without a lot of opportunities for awkward conversation, like a movie. Make every effort to ensure that she feels comfortable and that she knows that you accept her for who she is…after all, that's just what any girl wants really.
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