Ex asked for a week of time. It's been a week.

[PegNosePete]

Call her. Don't ask her out - simply ask what her decision is, yes or no.

 

If she says yes or no then accept it, don't try to change her mind.

 

If she says she is unsure or asks for more time then tell her it's not fair to keep you in limbo, and for your own sanity you are going to take this as a break-up.

 

Although, reading your previous threads, it seems like you're a really bad match anyway. I told you this back in Feb. And now you're still trying to flog that horse, even though it's been dead for months...

Edited August 3, 2018 by PegNosePete

[d0nnivain]

You are broken up. She only said a week because you were pressing for a period of time & she had to say something. It would have been preferable for her to be honest & straightforward but she was naively trying to soften the blow so she lied & said a week. She's done. That is not going to change in a week, 10 days, a month or a year. If it does, she has to reach out for you. You can't go chasing. You will be best served living your life.

[Gretchen12]

"she was still hurt" - what happened? Did you do something bad?

 

You also didn't mention how serious was the relationship and how long you've been together. If you're just dating and she lost interest then you leave it to her to contact you. If this was a serious relationship and you messed up, then you should check on her.

[Normm]

I'm not sure if I should be the one to ask her out again or if it's her move to make?

 

 

You first posted this thread a few weeks ago. The responses on this thread have been overwhelmingly and almost completely unanimous to completely ignore her and move on with your life. Now here you are 3 weeks later and asking the same exact question.

 

 

Do you expect different answers? Why?

[ExpatInItaly]

OP, this the same woman who cheated on you, correct? And was hurt that you "manipulated" her into admitting it?

 

Lose this girl's number. And please do work on your self-respect, man. This girl has trampled all over it.

[guest569]

Yes, why are you asking the same question? What has changed? Did your ex admit any wrong doing? Or is she in the clear in spite of having cheated on you?! Why is SHE angry and you are not? Please elaborate! Something is not adding up.