Britney25 Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Sooooo my question is : Do you text him a thank you after all the dates in the beginning? Im about to go on my second with this guy and im a little confused? haha
ppc Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Sooooo my question is : Do you text him a thank you after all the dates in the beginning? Im about to go on my second with this guy and im a little confused? haha I usually say thanks in real life after the date and dont text after them... But if you really liked the date and you think he too... Then why not?
ThreeRainbows Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Sooooo my question is : Do you text him a thank you after all the dates in the beginning? Im about to go on my second with this guy and im a little confused? haha If I enjoyed myself, I would text a thank you right afterwards. I don't see why not.
Author Britney25 Posted August 2, 2018 Author Posted August 2, 2018 If I enjoyed myself, I would text a thank you right afterwards. I don't see why not. Yes I did that on the first date but my question is do you keep doing that after all the dates or in person is enough?
Author Britney25 Posted August 2, 2018 Author Posted August 2, 2018 I usually say thanks in real life after the date and dont text after them... But if you really liked the date and you think he too... Then why not? I did that as well on out first date and then I texted a thank you too but the question is, do you keep texting thank you on all the dates or is it enough just in person? Im confused lol
ppc Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 I did that as well on out first date and then I texted a thank you too but the question is, do you keep texting thank you on all the dates or is it enough just in person? Im confused lol I think it's enough ín person, for me it would be strange after a time... Maybe 2 date is enough.
ppc Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 I did that as well on out first date and then I texted a thank you too but the question is, do you keep texting thank you on all the dates or is it enough just in person? Im confused lol I think it's enough ín person, for me it would be strange after a time... Maybe 2 date is enough.
coolheadal Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Sooooo my question is : Do you text him a thank you after all the dates in the beginning? Im about to go on my second with this guy and im a little confused? haha Just say Hi, I had a great time with (you fill in his name here). I can't wait for our next date! Don't think this just text the guy back. Gave you example of what to say and that's it don't overthink this okay. Keep it simple and neat!
PRW Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 From a guy's perspective, I would say don't. He'll figure out you enjoyed it when you say yes to the next date. It would be bad to establish that as a pattern. You can't maintain it forever and it will create a situation where the first time you don't text, he ends up freaking out running in circles wondering "what's wrong". Now if he is a very confident guy that won't happen,...but unfortunately most are not.
Mrin Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 I think it's fine to text a thank you to anyone at any time when you have enjoyed yourself. It doesn't have to be a pattern thing. But showing appreciation for a good time is the gracious thing to do - whether you've been on one date or a hundred. And it isn't exactly a burden to say thank you. In fact if you see it as a burden then you need to rethink your perspective. 1
ThreeRainbows Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 I think it's fine to text a thank you to anyone at any time when you have enjoyed yourself. It doesn't have to be a pattern thing. But showing appreciation for a good time is the gracious thing to do - whether you've been on one date or a hundred. And it isn't exactly a burden to say thank you. In fact if you see it as a burden then you need to rethink your perspective. This is how I feel. The texts will naturally fade out with time. I wouldn't stress about it.
Author Britney25 Posted August 2, 2018 Author Posted August 2, 2018 From a guy's perspective, I would say don't. He'll figure out you enjoyed it when you say yes to the next date. It would be bad to establish that as a pattern. You can't maintain it forever and it will create a situation where the first time you don't text, he ends up freaking out running in circles wondering "what's wrong". Now if he is a very confident guy that won't happen,...but unfortunately most are not. youre right...I will just tell him in person instead. thanks
kendahke Posted August 3, 2018 Posted August 3, 2018 I'll tell him before we part ways and I'll text him a quick line to reinforce my telling him I enjoyed it.
Lotsgoingon Posted August 4, 2018 Posted August 4, 2018 Basically you want to follow you real feelings. If you want to reach out and connect and you feel good and look forward to seeing him again and want to say how fun the date was, then text. Bottom line: say what you really feel like saying. If you made clear you enjoyed yourself in-person at the end of the date, you can simply send a matter-of-fact message ... Thanks again for the fun time. Hope you are having a great day. Looking forward to doing X ... or seeing you again. I am assuming the "thank you" is because he paid for the date ... if he didn't pay, and you had a great time, simply repeat that you had a great time and wish him a good day.
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