Nightblood313 Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Me, and my ex have dated for a very very short period of time, it was because we felt like we rushed things, and didn't have the time to get to know each other. So the break up was my idea first, but it was a mutual break up. we did have a rocking road after our break up, but we managed to become friends. now getting to know her more then a few months, and her knowing that i still like her. we been talking as friends, ( She is only interred in being good friends right now ). She hates the pass, and wants us to be close friends! But now that are friendship is getting a lot stronger, and we do text each other almost everyday ( Are conversations, are not deep! she does take time to reply to me, and i also do the same to her... But most of the time she the one texting me " HEY " or "What are you doing " or " Just jumps into a conversation about things she needs to tell me ). I feel like she being HOT and Cold with me, Even know she told me in the pass she just wants a friendship. But i feel like she not completely honest about her feelings, just cause she trying to find a reason to ) and with me being just a friend with her, i cant do much as to flirting! Cause i know that can push her away.. Anyways sometimes she would one world me via text, and other times she would want to talk to me. I want to re-attractive her, if theirs a chance. But im not sure how to! Im trying to be very slow with this process, and also using this time to get to know her better. What should i do, i cant flirt with her, or seem needy.... HELP I feel like im on the stage of " Riding the dragon " If you know what that dating term means.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 How long did you date? And how old are you both? I don't really get why you broke up if you still liked her a lot. Anyway, if she's told you she just wants to be close friends, I am not sure there is more you can do. I suppose you could ask her on a date, but if she says no, take that as your closure and stop communicating with her.
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