saturnbpd Posted August 1, 2018 Posted August 1, 2018 i really like this guy for a long time but recently we stopped talking because i stopped investing into our relationship and it seems like he doesnt care about it. Today i decided to finally text him (oops) .I texted "hey, do you wanna talk?" ,he replies "if you want yes". WHAT SHOULD I TEXT HIM BACK? (im thinking maybe just "you know what nevermind" OR tell him to be honest with me and dont play games)
CollegeKid101 Posted August 1, 2018 Posted August 1, 2018 i really like this guy for a long time but recently we stopped talking because i stopped investing into our relationship and it seems like he doesnt care about it. Today i decided to finally text him (oops) .I texted "hey, do you wanna talk?" ,he replies "if you want yes". WHAT SHOULD I TEXT HIM BACK? (im thinking maybe just "you know what nevermind" OR tell him to be honest with me and dont play games) "I can call you at 7?"
d0nnivain Posted August 1, 2018 Posted August 1, 2018 Let's meet. Coffee at {nearby place} in an hour? You can not address issues through a text, especially not emotional ones. Don't try. You will make things worse.
Lotsgoingon Posted August 1, 2018 Posted August 1, 2018 That "if you want, yes" bothers me. As in, "not really, but I'll answer the phone if you insist." Not sure, but I'd probably silently say blank you and leave him alone. But I'm not sure what it is you want to say. Why do you want to talk to him? You say he didn't invest in the relationship. This response seems consistent with that. 1
SevenCity Posted August 1, 2018 Posted August 1, 2018 i really like this guy for a long time but recently we stopped talking because i stopped investing into our relationship and it seems like he doesnt care about it. Today i decided to finally text him (oops) .I texted "hey, do you wanna talk?" ,he replies "if you want yes". WHAT SHOULD I TEXT HIM BACK? (im thinking maybe just "you know what nevermind" OR tell him to be honest with me and dont play games) “Never mind” is playing games. What relationship are you talking about? Did you date? Did you like him and never asked him out? Edit: guys will lose interest if there is no reciprocation of romantic feelings. Not sure if this is the case.
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