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Hi , I recently started talking to a single Mum on Snapchat and everything was going great , I asked her out and she said “it’s just getting free time, yeah I’m up for that, I like to pay my way lol , so I replied great , look forward to getting to know you a lot better.

 

We kept talking on and off and then as I was asking her questions and trying to keep the conversation flowing, I got the vibe she wasn’t interested in me anymore as she wasn’t replying and I realised I might have blown any chance with her already by not giving her enough space as she is a single Mum.

 

I sent her a message apologising from the bottom of my heart , she replied with I’m not looking for a relationship , which I get as I don’t intend to rush into a relationship straight away , just want to be friends and keep talking for now, build trust and s relationship with her and that’s why I apologised because I felt I had rushed into things with her.

 

She just sent a Snapchat photo of herself a few hours ago and I replied , Hope your ok , you look really pretty. Nice photo. Great tattoos , if you don’t mind me asking,where did you get them done again?

 

Can we still be Friends ?

 

Please help me with this , I don’t want to lose this lady or our friendship that we have / had on Snapchat . How do I rekindle our friendship again and keep us talking again so that we can work on building to trust each other and look forward to a relationship in the future together?

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She knows you want more than just to be casual internet friends, and she's basically told you twice she's not interested. Once was when she insisted on paying for herself so it wasn't a date. The other when she said "I don't want a relationship." Now, don't lie to me, you want more than a casual internet buddy or you wouldn't be all upset about this. It's not going to happen, and you're wasting your time. Don't be persistent with her. Women hate that and it gets creepy fast. Just move on and get off her social media. Sorry. Women know what they want. She's not interested.

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Just send her a note now and then ... no more apologizing ... you didn't commit any crimes or offenses ... so stop that.

 

I would say stay away from questions and just stay with "Great tattoos."

 

If she is interested in friendship, she'll reply.

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Hi , I recently started talking to a single Mum on Snapchat and everything was going great , I asked her out and she said “it’s just getting free time, yeah I’m up for that, I like to pay my way lol , so I replied great , look forward to getting to know you a lot better.

 

We kept talking on and off and then as I was asking her questions and trying to keep the conversation flowing, I got the vibe she wasn’t interested in me anymore as she wasn’t replying and I realised I might have blown any chance with her already by not giving her enough space as she is a single Mum.

 

I sent her a message apologising from the bottom of my heart , she replied with I’m not looking for a relationship , which I get as I don’t intend to rush into a relationship straight away , just want to be friends and keep talking for now, build trust and s relationship with her and that’s why I apologised because I felt I had rushed into things with her.

 

She just sent a Snapchat photo of herself a few hours ago and I replied , Hope your ok , you look really pretty. Nice photo. Great tattoos , if you don’t mind me asking,where did you get them done again?

 

Can we still be Friends ?

 

Please help me with this , I don’t want to lose this lady or our friendship that we have / had on Snapchat . How do I rekindle our friendship again and keep us talking again so that we can work on building to trust each other and look forward to a relationship in the future together?

 

You're coming across as clingy by apologizing for contacting her. Also, she's not looking for a relationship = she wants something casual. You're showing her you can't handle casual. Also, you don't want to be friends, you want something romantic, so she's not falling for that.

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The trust has not been broken and their is no friendship to rekindle...

 

You chatted for a while, she told you that she is not interested, and now you need to move on.

 

We can't win them all - for whatever reason, she has decided that she doesn't want to spend more time getting to know you. You have no idea what is happening in her life... It's time to let this go...

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I would work on getting in touch with your masculine side, and perhaps read some books/articles on self-respect. It will help you a lot in the dating world, I think.

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You didn't blow anything, she wasn't interested in the first place. She's one of those in it for the attention, a chat friend to stroke her ego. Don't sweat it. You did the right thing by asking her out BUT if they don't say YES LETS DO IT, and give you a bunch of wrong answers like, maybe, I dunno, I'm real busy, let me check my schedule blab bub blah blah blah. It's a no, don't say anything else, dump/block delete, stop wasting your time. Next them and move on.

 

 

Seriously if she was really interested she would have been more than happy to answer your questions about her....she's a waste of air.

 

 

And that comment about not wanting an a relationship...that's a load of bull...she doesn't want one with you, that is what that says.

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WillS if you want some dating tips I would be more than happy to lend a hand. PM me

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I would avoid single moms.

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ThreeRainbows Established Member

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I would avoid single moms.

 

 

:(

 

 

We can be pretty awesome, too, you know.

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Anyone who's on OLD but not ready to meet is just a time waster. And please, no more apologising - you've done nothing wrong!

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I sent her a message apologising from the bottom of my heart , she replied with I’m not looking for a relationship , which I get as I don’t intend to rush into a relationship straight away , just want to be friends and keep talking for now, build trust and s relationship with her and that’s why I apologised because I felt I had rushed into things with her.

 

How do I rekindle our friendship again and keep us talking again so that we can work on building to trust each other and look forward to a relationship in the future together?

 

You don't. You eventually want a relationship. She never wants one.

 

She is cutting contact with you because she knows to do anything else is giving you false hope & leading you on.

 

Post high school adults do not build romance on top of friendship. It you want a platonic friend, you become friends. If you want romance / a relationship you go on dates. Dates are simply meetings where you get to know the person & spend time with them. Stop confusing the two.

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You don't. You eventually want a relationship. She never wants one.

 

She is cutting contact with you because she knows to do anything else is giving you false hope & leading you on.

 

Post high school adults do not build romance on top of friendship. It you want a platonic friend, you become friends. If you want romance / a relationship you go on dates. Dates are simply meetings where you get to know the person & spend time with them. Stop confusing the two.

Ya why would you volunteer yourself to be put into the friends zone? That just shows you are being desperate. Women get turned off by that. Be confident. If they don't want to date you, wish them well, and block/delete. You are not losing any opportunity with them because there is none.

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Trust me, the friendzone is not fun. It is frustrating when they don't come around like you are deceptively trying to make them. It is painful when you get to see them start dating someone else.

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