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Ladies how do you respond if you like a guy?


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Do you give him the number? Do you kiss him? Do you have sex right away? How are you responding?

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I had sex with my hubby on the day we met. If I like a guy, he will know.

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At a minimum, if I liked a man I talk to him. I make eye contact. I touch him. I smile. I flirt. I make sure he knows how to contact me, phone / e-mail. I make sure to say / do something to let him know that if he has the courage to ask me on a date I will say yes. I communicate.

 

It did take me 4 dates to let DH know where I lived when we were first dating. He picked me up at my office the 1st time. We met at the restaurant the 2nd time. I wasn't planning to take him home that 4th time but we were on a hike with my dog & the dog got cut on a piece of glass on the trail. My date, now husband, helped me to get the bleeding 65 lb dog into the house so I could treat his paw.

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My date, now husband, helped me to get the bleeding 65 lb dog into the house so I could treat his paw.

 

did you guys have sex afterwards?

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If she's a grown woman with grown up panties she'll do exactly as she wishes and if it feels right. This question doesn't make sense and it's a bit voyeuristic considering any number of women would have slept with their now husbands or boyfriends etc.

 

What exactly are you asking, dateme? Are you not sure how to behave around women or what to expect on YOUR dates?

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If I like a guy I get in his space first, make some strong eye contact, then chat him up, make him laugh, then ask him out for beers.

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If I like a guy I get in his space first, make some strong eye contact, then chat him up, make him laugh, then ask him out for beers.

 

Interesting. Then women don't really like guys that much. Because they have to talk up a girl from day one. This is interesting.

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meh I'm just the aggressive type. Most get flirty and smile a lot if they like a guy....the guy has to do all the leg work because they girl want to feel valued.

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Do you give him the number? Do you kiss him? Do you have sex right away? How are you responding?

I compliment them a lot, say flirty things depending on the conversation and suggest to meet up again sometime.

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Well, it depends on the situation. If it's in a online dating setting, I will just tell him directly if I think he is attractive.

 

 

If it's not that kind of setting, I tend to blush, laugh at his jokes, and get caught sneaking looks at him... I am an oblivious flirt.

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I compliment them a lot, say flirty things depending on the conversation and suggest to meet up again sometime.

 

Interesting. Why meet up later?

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Interesting. Why meet up later?

To continue seeing him beyond our first talk. :) I guess I should have said asked on a date instead to be clearer!

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How do I respond? I just try to be myself and let things flow as naturally as possible. If I really like a man I make good eye contact and if we start having an interesting conversation...it goes from there. I have found I don't have to "try" all that hard when it's right and there are already sparks flying between the two of you. If a gal is really getting into you, I think you'll know it. I tend to like organic relationships moreso than contrived ones.

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