I'veseenbetterlol Posted July 27, 2018 Posted July 27, 2018 Anytime a guy has told me we should take it slow, he never wanted to actually be w/me. If you like each other, nothing else matters and the relationship goes the way it should, at your own organic pace.
coolheadal Posted July 28, 2018 Posted July 28, 2018 Anytime a guy has told me we should take it slow' date=' he never wanted to actually be w/me. If you like each other, nothing else matters and the relationship goes the way it should, at your own organic pace.[/quote'] I agree that's the truth they don't want to be with either sex. For me as a man the woman who tell me the same story are just not into me. I don't care because I rather find that out now then to waste any time or effort on them.
Author TheBathWater Posted July 31, 2018 Author Posted July 31, 2018 Well, she called me and told me the reason she's been hot and cold is because there's another guy involved. This is coming from the same woman who asked me on our first date if I were seeing anyone else and then said she doesn't multi-date. What a gal, huh? Apparently, they were friends before and he has recently expressed interest in her.
Normm Posted July 31, 2018 Posted July 31, 2018 Well, she called me and told me the reason she's been hot and cold is because there's another guy involved. I hope you win.
Author TheBathWater Posted July 31, 2018 Author Posted July 31, 2018 I hope you win. I guess I didn't say it directly, but she dumped me and chose him.
ThreeRainbows Posted July 31, 2018 Posted July 31, 2018 I think she has been hurt in the past and is trying to prevent herself from getting heartbroken by you. Someone left her after sleeping with her, and she's got a scar. I would just take things at her pace. You don't need to tell her to stop when getting physical. That's not authentically your boundary - that's game playing. You just need to do what a previous poster said. Say "That's fine, take your time." Let her create the pace, let her run when she needs to run. She's scared.
Author TheBathWater Posted July 31, 2018 Author Posted July 31, 2018 She's scared. No she's not. There's another guy in the picture that she didn't tell me about, after telling me she wasn't seeing anyone and wanted to make sure I wasn't dating anyone else. Her apparent trust issues turned out to be a projection. It wound up that it was I who couldn't trust her this whole time.
brigit87 Posted August 4, 2018 Posted August 4, 2018 No she's not. There's another guy in the picture that she didn't tell me about, after telling me she wasn't seeing anyone and wanted to make sure I wasn't dating anyone else. Her apparent trust issues turned out to be a projection. It wound up that it was I who couldn't trust her this whole time. Sorry. That sucks. Actually dating sucks. Maybe meet someone in church?
Juha Posted August 5, 2018 Posted August 5, 2018 No she's not. There's another guy in the picture that she didn't tell me about, after telling me she wasn't seeing anyone and wanted to make sure I wasn't dating anyone else. Her apparent trust issues turned out to be a projection. It wound up that it was I who couldn't trust her this whole time. WOW!!! Eff her!!! Delete her number and forget this game playing liar.... Some people are just awful and make dating an awful experience. I am sorry to hear about her lying and playing games with you. I wish you luck in finding an adult woman to date...
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