anxiety_aerial Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 Hello everyone, I will post a small story that I sent this acquaintance for some advice. And he's the one who said to me (you'll understand after the story) not to give up on her. And so I did eventually... Give up on her because of this reason. Here are the texts that I sent. I can give you a short explanation what's up, "B". But primarily because you deserve one after you said something a while back. You know the back story. She got kissed in a restaurant after going out with her friend "Jessica", her boyfriend and some random dude. (Which I think was her current boyfriend) We both were disappointed. We talked things out, I was paranoid after some while due to her being distant and having "messenger" issues and what not. I started to lose trust. I asked "C" for help. I asked "I" for help After some time I noticed some comments under her photos going away (which were mine) I didn't say anything. After 9 days or so, she removed her relationship status She says she didn didn't do it. We had a fight, she wasn't "Strong enough" for me to visit her in December nor was she strong enough to wait The next morning I texted her, to break up. Later on, I talked with "c". I wanted to make an apology video. With compilations of our photos and me playing the guitar with our favorite song. Later on, what "C" told me. Is that she was walking hand in hand with her current boyfriend during the time she "ignored" me. So when we were still dating according to him. He apologized for not saying anything because I wanted to "save the relationship" I was angry. I sent a letter to her, with me being angry and that it wasn't worth it. I got a reply, more tension came between us. And the list goes on. Because of his information, I did believe that she cheated on me with "Her current boyfriend" Or that she was still seeing him after I fairly explained NOT to see that guy who kissed her in the restaurant. To have no contact etc. I got depressed after some time has passed. Months came through, and I was disappointed as ****. Because I don't know the story completely. That's the story, "B". I hope you understand it. I do think she is probably better off without me now. Since look at me what I have done. I almost lost 400 euros because of a plane ticket after this "incident" But yeah, I guess that's life. So i don't know, "B". It's been like almost a year ago since we broke up. And she seems to be more happy than ever I guess And I can't ****ing help it but to have the thought of her sometimes. I ****ing hate it And of course, I am sorry for disappointing you and not following my promise. I guess I'm a weak person after all I'm still thinking even today... To send her a text to see how she's doing. Should I do this? Or should I Seek for professional help or something..
PegNosePete Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 Why on earth would you "not give up" on someone who quite clearly cheated on you? Just move on dude. She treated you like rubbish. You need to forget about her and find someone who has decent moral standards.
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