Box Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 Somebody has taken an interest in me and the feeling is mutual, we met on some program which lasts 4 weeks and ends today, meaning I will not see her after that. I have her Instagram and her Snapchat, however I haven't talked that much with her, I am thinking of asking her out but her friends seem to be quite involved (as one of them asked me if she "looked beautiful" and I was told "she likes you"), meaning that if I ask her out, they will know and most likely humiliate me whether it is a yes or a no. Should I just go ahead and ask her out or just leave it? Tl;dr -this girl likes me and I have some interest in her, won't see her again after today, should I ask her out to the cinema or something or just leave it, worried about being humiliated by my friends and her friends.
Kelliousme Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 ..her friends would humiliate you if you ask her out? Sounds like you guys are in middle school or something lol. Why miss the chance because of other people's opinions? If you're sure the feeling is mutual.. what are you waiting for? You don't want this to become a regret in your life
coolheadal Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 Somebody has taken an interest in me and the feeling is mutual, we met on some program which lasts 4 weeks and ends today, meaning I will not see her after that. I have her Instagram and her Snapchat, however I haven't talked that much with her, I am thinking of asking her out but her friends seem to be quite involved (as one of them asked me if she "looked beautiful" and I was told "she likes you"), meaning that if I ask her out, they will know and most likely humiliate me whether it is a yes or a no. Should I just go ahead and ask her out or just leave it? Tl;dr -this girl likes me and I have some interest in her, won't see her again after today, should I ask her out to the cinema or something or just leave it, worried about being humiliated by my friends and her friends. Walk up to this girl and say hi? If she likes you she would smile and her eyes will shine. Got to look at her eyes to tell if she really likes you before you ask her out. Young love starts fast, so you need to act on it. Friends are friends you are the one asking not them. They're friends if they're not then you drop and run for a new set of friends.
d0nnivain Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 Since you are concerned about how this will appear to her friends & their reactions, reach out to her via one of the social media platforms & ask for her phone #. Then privately text her after you get the # & ask her out.
brokengirl85 Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 Humiliate you? That’s a strong word for sure. Looks like you guys are in high school, am I right? I’d just ask her out via Instagram and forget about it if she says no. I know adolescence is a really chaotic stage in ones life, but you’ll see, nothing is really a matter of life or dead Courage mon ami!
smackie9 Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 OK you need to think of it this way.....you are doing this for yourself, and no one's opinion should matter. BE CONFIDENT! If you like her, ask her out like anyone else would. The first date shouldn't be anything glamorous, keep it simple like go out for ice cream, go for a walk, take her to the beach this weekend and go swimming, or just hang out and talk, buy her a cold drink. Just remember always offer something to eat or drink or both....it's like being a good host.
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