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Ending it for real?

xontefi

By xontefi
in Breaks and Breaking Up

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xontefi New Member

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Here's the thing, we ended our "relationship" (more like hanging out for 6 months, saying that we wont be in something serious), so after that time we talked and I decided that we will end it but we will stay friends... So I havent meet her in real for some week, and Ill get to see her in two days... I still dont recognize my feelings, but I think that i dont want a relationship and that there's a sign to confirm my feelings because I have a serious doubt imagining if i continue with her.

So, every advice is welcomed.

also how to keep the conversation, so she wont cry, how to make her feel better, how to recognize the feelings maybe?

Let me know. im so confused.

thanks.

springy Established Member

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Maybe more time apart and no contact is needed so you can sort your feelings. If you are quite certain, or even unsure about getting back together then hanging out with her will do her more harm than good. By hanging out and continuing to communicate with her she will begin to think that you may be interested in getting back together.

ThreeRainbows Established Member

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Here's the thing, we ended our "relationship" (more like hanging out for 6 months, saying that we wont be in something serious), so after that time we talked and I decided that we will end it but we will stay friends... So I havent meet her in real for some week, and Ill get to see her in two days... I still dont recognize my feelings, but I think that i dont want a relationship and that there's a sign to confirm my feelings because I have a serious doubt imagining if i continue with her.

So, every advice is welcomed.

also how to keep the conversation, so she wont cry, how to make her feel better, how to recognize the feelings maybe?

Let me know. im so confused.

thanks.

 

 

It is cruel of you to attempt to continue a friendship with her. Have you never been friendzoned after being dumped? It is not fun.

 

 

 

However, she failed to respect herself by not clarifying the relationship/thinking she could change your feelings.

 

 

Of course she is going to cry. You lead her on for 6 months. What did you expect?

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BC1980 Established Member

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If you are unsure at 6 months, the answer is NO.

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