WannaLuvsomeone Posted July 20, 2018 Posted July 20, 2018 Hello everyone.Iam new here iam 43 yrs old and am a total gentleman,and I need advice as to what to do with this girl I have been dating for the last 7 months...I will explain the whole story if I get enough people that respond to this..I just don’t want to write a whole thread and no one respond to it..and trust me you will want to hear this story..is she using me or is she seeing another guy or is she playing games..please someone respond I need help and advice.
Poutrew Posted July 20, 2018 Posted July 20, 2018 Well, from what little you did write, I feel pretty safe to say that yes, she is using you and that there is another man involved... usually, your gut is right on matters of the heart. Trust your gut...
mrs rubble Posted July 20, 2018 Posted July 20, 2018 What makes you think she's using you? What clues do you have that she's seeing another man?
Lotsgoingon Posted July 20, 2018 Posted July 20, 2018 Well, from what little you did write, I feel pretty safe to say that yes, she is using you and that there is another man involved... usually, your gut is right on matters of the heart. Trust your gut... I agree with Poutrew. I can almost guarantee just based on the outline you gave us that this is someone you ought to dump. Right now, you are most likely letting yourself get lost in the details so that you don't see the clear picture. That clear picture most likely is: you really like this woman ... but you are running into multiple times that make you feel uncomfortable, as if something is deeply wrong ... or that she is dating someone else ... but you fear you are over-thinking this. Almost guaranteed: you're not overthinking this. You're not making up the weird and uncomfortable behavior ... and despite the fact that you like her, it would be really smart to let her go. I am happy to be wrong.
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