Robert Posted August 21, 2018 Posted August 21, 2018 4 threads on the same topic have been merged into one, this thread has recent updates, thanks
Author Fguiopm Posted December 27, 2018 Author Posted December 27, 2018 Let me begin by saying, probably because he’s a ****ing *******. Okay, I just had to get that anger out before telling the story. Long story short, I broke up with him 6 months ago after a year and a half relationship. We loved each other infinitely however we were both immature in our own ways. We were each other’s best friend’s, we knew everything about each other, went through hell and back. The past 6 months have been a roller coaster for me and I’ve matured and become much stronger from it, or so I thought. We saw each other this past Wednesday for the first time in awhile. I went to a bar and he was there and he watched me all night, talked to me, and it was like our breakup had never happened. At the end of the night he got in my car and I could tell it was about to go down. He just sat there and I finally broke he ice with an “I miss you”. He said “I miss you too and i still love you. I told my mom I saw you today” and we just held hands and he started crying and it was a lot. Afterwards, he cane to my apartment. (I didn’t invite him nor give him my address).. he just got it from a friend. He pulls me on his chest, holds my hand, and tells me he’s sorry for ever making me feel like I wasn’t enough because I’m more than enough. I asked if I could kiss him and he said yes so we made out. Then I told him whatever he’s going through I know he’ll get through it and that I love him so much. He started crying again and he said I miss you so much and that he still loves me more than anything in this world. He told me he still cried every day since he breakup and that he wakes up wondering why I’m not there. It ended just great and I was so happy. I didn’t expect us to be back together but I thought we’d be in a great place and possibly just moving forward from the bull****. Three days later, I call him and tell him I’m uncomfortable with how we left it since we haven’t talked about it since. He says “he didn’t feel we needed to dissect it and that nothing’s really changed in his life that puts him in a position to be in a relationship”. So why the **** would be come over and do all that!? Who does that?! Not to mention all the females he’s having sex with and he honestly probably had sex that same night. I just wanna understand because I’m really hurting. Like truly.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 27, 2018 Posted December 27, 2018 He probably got rejected by one of his new girls and came to you for soothing and attention. Now that he’s got his fill, he is distancing himself again. It’s been 6 months, girl. It’s time to stop giving him an audience and block him. You can see that continued contact is doing nothing but causing you pain. 1
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