bendit Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 Sam, never contact her again. She is trouble for you. Don't even play her messages. Congrads on staying strong. Regards mike
Author samski3409 Posted September 7, 2005 Author Posted September 7, 2005 thanks bendit! I know man,it's just so ****ing tough. and i have been strong up to this point. i know that as days go by it will get easier and i feel like I've been through the worst already! 100,000 fireflies!!! Stephin Merritt just knows heartbreak doesn't he?
bendit Posted September 7, 2005 Posted September 7, 2005 thanks bendit! I know man,it's just so ****ing tough. and i have been strong up to this point. i know that as days go by it will get easier and i feel like I've been through the worst already! 100,000 fireflies!!! Stephin Merritt just knows heartbreak doesn't he? I wonder if he is hanging out here? stay strong Man. Mike
Author samski3409 Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 i just wanted to whine a little bit because i miss her so much today!! that's it!
sanne Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 no better place to whine than here. your doing good so far, keep it up. don't worry in time you WILL think less and less of her.
Author samski3409 Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 i know man. i totally have to use this place as a crutch whenever i can. it's just that whenever things are going well it just hits me. one thing i can keep solace in is the fact that i loved that girl with all i had and treated the whole relationship with tons of respect. she just turned out to be all screwed up in the head and that wasn't my fault at all.
Author samski3409 Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 i do wish that i could strum up a little bit of girl. it sure would make things easier!
Author samski3409 Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 i do wish that i could strum up a little bit of girl. it sure would make things easier! i meant to put the word anger in there or hatred or something othere then this stupid love i still have for her
sundrop Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 i meant to put the word anger in there or hatred or something othere then this stupid love i still have for her You are making me laugh, in a good way. You are doing good. Take care of your self.
Author samski3409 Posted September 8, 2005 Author Posted September 8, 2005 Thanks sun! I've never been accused of being anything other then a big goofball! glad to be of some amusement!
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 this sucks!! i got a email from her today. damn, i hate that. even if i did reply to it i wouldn't know what to say. it them cap that i always get from her. i just don't understand how she could tell me that she loves me and misses me so much. if that were really the case she'd do something to get back with me.instead she feeds me this stuff but that's all it is.stupid words that don't mean sh*t without any action. i'm so over this already.i really just want to move on,but i can't seem to get her out of my head and this certainly does not help.
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 same here samski. how long was it since the last contact? are either of you seeing anyone now? Usually a month between calls from my ex, and I am usually over it until that day. will you relply? what did she say?
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 it was about six weeks before she called the other day and now the email. i haven't replayed and i don't think i will.because after the break up(or her dumping me to be correct) we had a lot of contact for a while and hooked up a few times,but it was f-ing torture because i was still so in love with her and i wanted more.meanwhile when she wasn't with me she was out doing her "thing". i finally got feed up with being her crutch and go to guy when things weren't good for her elsewhere,so i had to stop all contact with her. she's always telling me how much she loves me and misses me,but like i said it's apparently not enough for her to actually want to be with me. I'm dating casually and i suppose that she's dating as well.
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 cool, we have very similar situations except my ex got back with her ex. But it seems like we have no problem with NC, but they always come back. DRIVES ME NUTS
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 by coming back I mean telling us that they love us but cant be with us. I forget, was she the dumper
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 i've done my share of breaking up and i can say that i never played that silly game. i just let them be,especially if i did the dumping. i just don't get it! she knows i love her like crazy,but i'm not going to hang around and be somekinda doormat.if she doesn't want to be with me why can she just leave me alone?
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 by coming back I mean telling us that they love us but cant be with us. I forget, was she the dumper yes, she sure was.
francis Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 suggested method to avoid replying to stupid emails...hit delete right away, then it doesnt exist, it doesnt sit in your inbox like a nagging reminder, it just vanishes and its as if it was never there in the first place! hit delete *ping* ! gone!
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well my ex actually told me this past time when I tried to get her to make a decision and not just tell me she loved me. (I told her there will be a time that she wants to be with me and she said "I already do" WTF.) Anyway she said that she was happy with him because he didnt pressure her the way i did. And she said she was done her mind was made up. When she said she loved me while we were in the same place as her new BF (the other ex) dont you think I deserve some kind of an answer?
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 i don't know man. she sounds very confused and she's confusing the hell out of you in the mean time. you need somebody that knows what they want.
kscholze Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 I just try to consider it over although I still love her, and think she will come back at some point. \ BTW how long were you together wiht her. It was only 5 months for us
Author samski3409 Posted September 9, 2005 Author Posted September 9, 2005 she dumped me a week after our one year anniversary! that sucked
sundrop Posted September 10, 2005 Posted September 10, 2005 she dumped me a week after our one year anniversary! that sucked Gosh, That does suck........ Have a good weekend. After the week I had I had to get out of town and come visit my brother. Ya'll have a good one.
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