ashley83 Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 Okay. My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to get back together w/ me in a pretty round about sort of way....He's the one who broke up w/ me. So we have been back together for 4 months. He never once bought me flowers...or any i'm sorry type of thing, or ya know...just to be nice because he's my boyfriend. I finally asked him about it, I said..." you broke up w/ me and never once brought me flowers or anything".....so next thing ya know he gets me flowers. Well I was so happy about it, but it's like I still feel like it was only because I asked him to, and I kind of resent him for it. So, I tell him, and he just doesn't get it. He also said in the past that he was going to buy me a promise ring and last week he bought me a necklace from avon... He has a very good job, and has enough money to buy me a promise ring. I mean, I dunno......avon jewelry is kinda cheap, and he's always bragging about how much money he has. I'm not a gold digger in any way. I would be happy if he just picked me flowers out of his yard without me asking....it's just the gesture. Am I feeling wrong about this?? please help!
bluechocolate Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 I take it when you went out with him before he didn't spontaneously buy you flowers? If so, what makes you think he's gonna do so now? Aside from not getting flowers that you don't have to ask for, what is wrong with your relationship?
flowergirl Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 I hate to say this (well, not really), but you seem kind of materialistic to me, and the fact that you qualified yourself by saying you're not a gold digger, in my opinion, means that you are. Just because your boyfriend makes a lot of money doesn't mean he has to spend it all on you. The fact that he bought you a necklace at all means that he's making an effort. It ain't all about the bling ya know.
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