How would women rank these male physical charateristics in order of importance?

[Unrequitedlover]

Frame

Looks

Penis size

Height

[Mr. Lucky]

Looks (facial)

Frame

Height

Penis Size

 

Employment status?

 

Mr. Lucky

[shocky97]

kindness matters to me.....

 

if i hear a kind voice....that counts first....that will draw my interest

 

one of my exes was five foot..so height doesnt matter to me

 

i feel every guy i have dated has had facial features i have really enjoyed looking at...as far as that goes....i have also dated men with some pretty serious scars...fighters.......some women might not have agreed on looks..... what i have found and do find attractive and handsome some women wouldnt ......looks are subjective........and my opinion really only matters to the guy i date and myself....

 

i find rating people to be actually ....a bit degrading.not a nice way to view peeps....and not at all ...how i like to choose a date because i would not like to have a date choose me by rating me......... that would in my opinion not lead to a potential emotionally secure long lasting relationship..and i choose dates with that long term thought in mind........deb

 

I never said kindness didn't matter. That isn't a physical characteristic.

 

Am I the only one that will be brutally honest?

 

 

Penis size

Looks

Height

Frame

 

 

A good penis size will make me forget looks height and frame.

 

Obviously you're not the only one. Men fret about penis size the most out of the 4 for a reason; it didn't come out of nowhere.

[Gaeta]

Obviously you're not the only one. Men fret about penis size the most out of the 4 for a reason; it didn't come out of nowhere.

 

 

Yes but men fret about penis size when they have no reason to. Most of the time these men are average but they think they should be as big as what they see in porn. They have unrealistic expectations and their insecurity isn't justified.

[carhill]

'Quantity has a quality all its own'

 

Back when I believed what women said things were much easier. Then I got married

 

Best bedroom line? 'If only you were an inch longer'

 

It is what it is.

[preraph]

My number one is usually hair, and it's not on the list.

[shocky97]

My number one is usually hair, and it's not on the list.

 

Count it as looks.

[shocky97]

Lol at anyone that has penis size last. Would you accept a guy who is good looking and great body but has a 4, 4.5 inch dick? No, I don't think so. It should be top 2

[basil67]

Lol at anyone that has penis size last. Would you accept a guy who is good looking and great body but has a 4, 4.5 inch dick? No, I don't think so. It should be top 2

 

Are you asking all these questions because you're trying to work out why women don't like you?

[bathtub-row]

Lol at anyone that has penis size last. Would you accept a guy who is good looking and great body but has a 4, 4.5 inch dick? No, I don't think so. It should be top 2

 

I don’t understand how a person can rank penis size along with things you can immediately see vs things you can’t. Where do you live? A nudist colony?

[shocky97]

I don’t understand how a person can rank penis size along with things you can immediately see vs things you can’t. Where do you live? A nudist colony?

 

No I'm a millennial. Girls my age ask for dick pics and will have sex on hte first date to see if you're hung or not. If you're anything less than 5.5, you're getting dumped.

[basil67]

No I'm a millennial. Girls my age ask for dick pics and will have sex on hte first date to see if you're hung or not. If you're anything less than 5.5, you're getting dumped.

 

You're a millennial? I thought you were Gen Z.

 

So how often do you get dumped for penis size?

[William]

Clever work by the females here, kudos, to make it personal, but lets get back to the topic. Reports to moderation are not always guaranteed to have the desired effect, not on my watch anyway. I'll leave it to the other mods to make the policy decision. For now, rank male characteristics as experienced in your own, or your partner's, experience.

 

ETA, here's how it went.... thread starter was identified as PBM, banned and thread closed.

 

Here's some advice to preserve posting privileges, of which no ones are guaranteed. If encountering a suspected troll, previously banned member (PBM) or other problematic content, report it privately to moderation and continue to focus on the topic or move on. A coordinated pile-on always risks harsh response from me, perhaps less so from other moderators. Why? It's called setting an example for new members. LoveShack.org does not want a reputation of being a pile-on/hazing/harassment place, rather a welcoming and supportive and friendly place.

 

Thanks!

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[todreaminblue]

I never said kindness didn't matter. That isn't a physical characteristic.

 

i have to disagree kindness can be seen as a physical characteristic....kindness can be seen in facial features and exist in softness of the face hav eyou ever seen a persons face change....the hardness that comes with anger or coldness of spirit..i prefer soft full faces...kindness is often most able to be visual...where i hear kindness.....in a voice....i then look deeper at facial features....

 

i never said that you wrote kindness didnt matter.... if you read my post i said it matters to me more than the other characteristics you have mentioned...

 

i stand by what i wrote...including my choice and how i pick dates.....deb.....

[bathtub-row]

No I'm a millennial. Girls my age ask for dick pics and will have sex on hte first date to see if you're hung or not. If you're anything less than 5.5, you're getting dumped.

 

Whether that's a generational thing or not, these aren't women I'd date if I were a guy.

[shocky97]

Whether that's a generational thing or not, these aren't women I'd date if I were a guy.

 

I wouldn't date them either but these are 90% of the female population.

[greymatter]

Looks (facial), Frame, Height are all equally to me when it comes to physical attraction, and in recent years I have only dated men who have all of the attributes that I find appealing: handsome, lean and fit, and tall (though I think I could easily date a shorter guy and not care, that one is less important so could rank lower, but I do always seem to end up dating taller men between 5'10"-6'4" so height must factor in there, consciously or unconsciously).

 

Penis size has never been an issue with any man I dated (except for one man when I was really young who was so huge it was just.not.for.me - but he was really sweet) so it doesn't seem important to rank it. ED is another story (I would prefer to know about that issue up front, before ever getting close to someone).

Edited July 12, 2018 by greymatter
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[basil67]

I wouldn't date them either but these are 90% of the female population.

 

90% of female population. So we're talking 90% of 3yo to 97yo women wanting those pictures.

 

Nice try.

[shocky97]

90% of female population. So we're talking 90% of 3yo to 97yo women wanting those pictures.

 

Nice try.

 

meant to say the dating pool for a 20 year old guy lol

 

I'd love to meet a more mature woman who's less likely to mind but they're hard to find. I get the sense that the women who've posted positive stuff here are my moms age

[shocky97]

Penis size has never been an issue with any man I dated (except for one man when I was really young who was so huge it was just.not.for.me - but he was really sweet) so it doesn't seem important to rank it. ED is another story (I would prefer to know about that issue up front, before ever getting close to someone).

 

I don't buy this. You've probably had a lot of experience. There's got to be at least one small dude that you couldn't get any satisfaction from.