ava13 Posted July 10, 2018 Posted July 10, 2018 My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, and he was super into me when we first started dating. Over time, especially recently, I've noticed that he hasn't been answering my texts or keeping up convos as much as he used to. If he does answer me, it's usually only a quick sentence or two. For example, I just said hello to him a couple moments ago and asked how he was. He read them, didn't respond, and went offline. I'm trying to convince myself that this is happening because he's busy (it's summer and all), but I'm getting a little nervous that he's cheating on me or something. Can anybody explain this to me? If not, I would at least like to know if this is happening or has ever happened to other people.
lakerman34 Posted July 10, 2018 Posted July 10, 2018 My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, and he was super into me when we first started dating. Over time, especially recently, I've noticed that he hasn't been answering my texts or keeping up convos as much as he used to. If he does answer me, it's usually only a quick sentence or two. For example, I just said hello to him a couple moments ago and asked how he was. He read them, didn't respond, and went offline. I'm trying to convince myself that this is happening because he's busy (it's summer and all), but I'm getting a little nervous that he's cheating on me or something. Can anybody explain this to me? If not, I would at least like to know if this is happening or has ever happened to other people. Has happened to everyone on this forum. Sorry, this might hurt because you are so young, but it's probably best just to move on. Relationships at your age are going to be so fleeting. I'd say just try to have fun with your friends, and it's OK to think a boy is cute and date, but try not to take anything too seriously at your age.
smackie9 Posted July 10, 2018 Posted July 10, 2018 Sounds like this is long distance relationship. Ya he's ghosting on you for whatever reason. Stop contacting him. If you don't hear from him, it's over.
N2017 Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 Girl you're in 7th grade. I'm guessing you're only 12 or 13. Don't do this to yourself. This isn't going to last even if he isn't cheating on you as you suggest. Wait until you are older to commit to a guy. Every single middle school guy looks forward to going into high school and meeting new girls. So I can pretty much guarantee that he's the same . This is probably his way of telling you goodbye and hoping you will get the hint.
rightondude Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 if he aint into you 100% move on. You have too much life to live to care otherwise. Also quick life hint/hack: quit texting him and watch how fast he comes back to you! 1
bathtub-row Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 I agree with the others and would also say that you should stop contacting him. I’m sorry if it hurts but, honey, I think you’re way too young to be getting involved in relationships right now. This is the time to discover who you are.
BaileyB Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 Darling girl, boys at this age will come and go. Its very common for boys and girls to change their minds, because friendships and relationships are constantly forming and changing at your age. May I suggest that you forget about this boy and enjoy your summer - spend time with your friends, listen to your favorite music, watch some good movies! Have fun! Someday, you will look back and remember this boy fondly as your first boyfriend. You will understand that every experience is new and wonderful for their own reasons. Try not to worry, your future is full of possibilities and there will be other boys. Please, go and have some fun this summer!
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