Met a girl I like when I was getting jaded with dating. Sadly it's going nowhere...

[regdent]

I am experiencing dating fatigue and a form of heartbreak I think.

 

I've gone on a lot of dates the last 4-5 months. Mostly one date with each person. A lot of rejections and disappointments. I can usually brush it off easily when a girl shows no interest after a date. Some women led me to think they were really into me, but they all disappear in the end.

 

Met a girl I am strongly attracted to 2.5 weeks ago through Tinder. Impressed with what I saw on the profile- great looks and a solid career. I was literally mesmerized the moment I saw her. I don't recall the last time I felt this way about a female. The date went very well despite the initial nerves. She seems to have a lot of qualities I look for in a potential girlfriend. Couldn't wait to see her again, and she was very receptive to my advances.

 

Second date did not quite feel the same, and things are not progressing. She doesn't say no, but she doesn't say yes either. I hate that I am so attracted to someone who probably doesn't feel the same way about me. I keep swiping and keep myself busy hoping to forget about this situation, but it is not easy. Had sex with an old FWB after I explained my situation to her. It didn't help. Damn...

 

Should I ask her out one more time and ask her if she wants me to stop asking?

[fredflint]

If a woman is genuinely interested, she will usually make it easy for you to talk to her and date her. Some will play hard to get or are just super busy, but who wants to deal with that. This woman is probably not interested. Time to move on to the next, sorry

[I'veseenbetterlol]

If a woman is genuinely interested, she will usually make it easy for you to talk to her and date her. Some will play hard to get or are just super busy, but who wants to deal with that. This woman is probably not interested. Time to move on to the next, sorry

 

Yes she will reciprocate the effort. When someone likes you, you will know. You will not need to spend time analyzing their moves. People who are interested though do not play hard to get nor are they too busy for you.

[ElKay]

How have you been picking the women on the dating site before? Maybe it's time to spice things up and not go for those that you've gone for so far?

Or think about how you act during dates? If you're jaded, it might seep through in the conversations even if you don't mention it.

 

I'm not saying you're necessarily wrong in all of this, but there might be something that you could improve moving forward. Too bad your FWB can only help the physical aspect of this. ^^'

[coolheadal]

I am experiencing dating fatigue and a form of heartbreak I think.

 

I've gone on a lot of dates the last 4-5 months. Mostly one date with each person. A lot of rejections and disappointments. I can usually brush it off easily when a girl shows no interest after a date. Some women led me to think they were really into me, but they all disappear in the end.

 

Met a girl I am strongly attracted to 2.5 weeks ago through Tinder. Impressed with what I saw on the profile- great looks and a solid career. I was literally mesmerized the moment I saw her. I don't recall the last time I felt this way about a female. The date went very well despite the initial nerves. She seems to have a lot of qualities I look for in a potential girlfriend. Couldn't wait to see her again, and she was very receptive to my advances.

 

Second date did not quite feel the same, and things are not progressing. She doesn't say no, but she doesn't say yes either. I hate that I am so attracted to someone who probably doesn't feel the same way about me. I keep swiping and keep myself busy hoping to forget about this situation, but it is not easy. Had sex with an old FWB after I explained my situation to her. It didn't help. Damn...

 

Should I ask her out one more time and ask her if she wants me to stop asking?

 

My friend think as a CAVE MAN does and not how BELL BOY would. You need to get your confidence back you lost it. Women will do whatever they want too you can't control them. All these women will get what they want from you until they'll drop you like a box of matches. You need to have a clear focus your loosing your touch. I don't get it. You date these women and expect so much but in the return you show hurt. Man up and get on to the next one. Show them you mean business if they don't like it drop them and move on. Let them come back to you instead of your doing it. Do not show weakness. If the first date gone will you tell her when you ready give me a call for our next date, otherwise I have better things to do. You say that to those women you deem acting odd too you. If you not getting anything out of this date you need to say that. Get up and say it. Even if you have to leave them there. Sure it might be harsh but you are dealing with some toxic daters. If they're into into you way do you spend all your money trying to impress them. Do not do that. Leave them there. Pay the check with cash and get the heck out of their. RUN if you have too.

 

A date should go well the woman you are with should be happy to be with you might start to care for you. No love yet, just maybe a like or too. Don't expect more. Just met her. Now forget all these duds and go and find someone you can get interested in. Forget the swipe to the left and to the right what a way to spend your day really come.. Stop wasting your time like that so many women out there yeah I know it's a jungle out there but life already isn't that easy for us men.

Edited July 10, 2018 by coolheadal