Exformer Posted August 14, 2018 Posted August 14, 2018 I mean I did end up asking her out. It also didn't help she went on vacation for a few weeks. I think I might follow up since when I suggested before she left that we should meet up after she gets back, she said yes enthusiastically. Absolutely, the vacation could have, and probably did play a part. time away could have given her perspective or just knocked the excitement down a beg. Heck, she could have met someone in the gap that really got her fired up and shifted her focus. Or maybe she was excited to go to coffee with you but she was also getting asked out by someone else, who managed to put the right effort in to get her focused on him. Plenty of what ifs, and too many to consider. I think what you should take away from this is to not hesitate. Make something happen rather than overthinking it and letting time give opportunity for interest to shift. You couldn't help that she had a vacation in the works, but maybe some sort of visible return of interest could have been given back to her before asking to coffee, like a little mutual flirting. Confidence is key, and its the only thing in the dating world I'd ever suggest faking until you feel it for real.
Author ikonik Posted August 14, 2018 Author Posted August 14, 2018 Absolutely, the vacation could have, and probably did play a part. time away could have given her perspective or just knocked the excitement down a beg. Heck, she could have met someone in the gap that really got her fired up and shifted her focus. Or maybe she was excited to go to coffee with you but she was also getting asked out by someone else, who managed to put the right effort in to get her focused on him. Plenty of what ifs, and too many to consider. I think what you should take away from this is to not hesitate. Make something happen rather than overthinking it and letting time give opportunity for interest to shift. You couldn't help that she had a vacation in the works, but maybe some sort of visible return of interest could have been given back to her before asking to coffee, like a little mutual flirting. Confidence is key, and its the only thing in the dating world I'd ever suggest faking until you feel it for real. So do you think all is lost here or should I give her a few more days?
Exformer Posted August 14, 2018 Posted August 14, 2018 So do you think all is lost here or should I give her a few more days? You asked her out again and she didn't reply. The ball is in her court. If she wants to see you, she'll respond. So, don't contact her. focus on letting go and moving on. If she does contact you, it can be a pleasant surprise, but I wouldn't hold my breath, or continue asking out a girl who isn't replying back to me.
alphamale Posted August 14, 2018 Posted August 14, 2018 So do you think all is lost here or should I give her a few more days? all is lost, abandon ship
Author ikonik Posted August 16, 2018 Author Posted August 16, 2018 So I have this friend that also knows her and he texted her for something unrelated a while back and it took her a few days to respond to him. This guy is married with kids so he has no interest in her. This could be that too.
Curious-One Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 Ok dood you asked her out 2-3 times and she made up an excuse without offering another time .... its over shes not interested let it go and move on. If she was interested she would say sorry i cant do sunday how about tuesday .... or something like that.
Johnjohnson2017 Posted August 16, 2018 Posted August 16, 2018 She doesn’t seem to be interested. Maybe there is another man in her life. If she was interested, she would have contacted you. All it takes is like 10 seconds for her to respond with a text.
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