How do I end things with a girl that I’ve been seeing for 3 months? (Updated)

[CantTakeMySmile]

I’ve done it. She has since text me twice, obviously angry and upset, I feel like I don’t need to explain myself further - there is nothing more I can say. She told me that I’ve broken her heart, which made me feel nauseous with guilt. I have no intention of responding to her, as I feel any further communicated from me could potentially lead her on even further. Is this ok or should I respond out of courtesy?

 

 

 

 

 

Yes it ok not to respond.

[JuneL]

I’ve done it. She has since text me twice, obviously angry and upset, I feel like I don’t need to explain myself further - there is nothing more I can say. She told me that I’ve broken her heart, which made me feel nauseous with guilt. I have no intention of responding to her, as I feel any further communicated from me could potentially lead her on even further. Is this ok or should I respond out of courtesy?

 

Did you tell her you’ll go NC? If not, you can reply with a brief message explaining you’ll go NC so both of you can move on.

[Gretchen12]

I'm guessing you didn't attach to her because you didn't have to win her.

 

No need to reply to her. And if she demands an explanation, just say the feeling is not there and you just can't fake it. (wait a minute, I think that's a song)

[SevenCity]

I would rather be broken up with over text.

 

 

That way I can cry if I feel like it in private and think that it's no big loss since no decent man would break up with a woman over text

 

We are talking 3 months, not 3 years.

 

Text for that duration is perfectly fine for me both giving and receiving.

[HumanMachine]

I'm guessing you didn't attach to her because you didn't have to win her.

 

This is very true

[BC1980]

I would rather be broken up with over text.

 

 

That way I can cry if I feel like it in private and think that it's no big loss since no decent man would break up with a woman over text

 

I second this. It’s humiliating to cry in front of someone that dumped you.

[winny]

This is very true

 

That's dumb.

[ThreeRainbows]

It's sad that we have to play games to get a guy to attach. I would rather be real. Doesn't make sense to me.