CantDecide... Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 well my title says it all, i was going out with my girl for 2 years and we broke up(no this isnt a how to i get my girl back thread or an i miss her). im confused because, i met a new girl last night. im seeing her tommorow, at a movie but im still really confused. i still really love my ex, and i still talk to my ex and hang out daily. my ex and i dont really hook up but weve discuseed being friends with befnefits so the to of us can atleast get ass if were gonna hang out. but like im just confused, i talk to my ex everday, im going to city with her on saturday but then theres this other girl. my ex has this guy she met also, they talk i was there when he called her once, but they hardly ever talk she said. and like i know i should just igve this girl a try, becasue shes realy cool, we have common interests, and my ex did say flat out she doesnt want a relationship anymore right now...but something is still holding me to my ex, something is just saying to me might be making a mistake to meet this new girl....please give me advice...my head keeps having so many dif thoughts and ideas.
flowergirl Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 There's a reason you two broke up, so you shouldn't be contacting each other, especially since you say you're still in love with your ex. You need to take time to get over her first, then start dating. And please don't put some new girl through this, tell the new girl that you're not ready to date yet, so that she doesn't get her heart broken.
Author CantDecide... Posted September 2, 2005 Author Posted September 2, 2005 There's a reason you two broke up, so you shouldn't be contacting each other, especially since you say you're still in love with your ex. You need to take time to get over her first, then start dating. And please don't put some new girl through this, tell the new girl that you're not ready to date yet, so that she doesn't get her heart broken. well yes my ex and i did break up for a reason, but we cant just stop talking, weve tried that and it doesnt work...i will not put the new girl through anything, im going to flat out say im not looking for a relationship rite now, but i still would like to hang out with you and get to know you, evan if its as friends. cuz i dont want to hurt anybody, thats just not me...like the new girl is really cool, we have a lot in common, and shes got a pretty good personality as far as i can tell...im just confused, in my head i know me and my ex are over becasue shes said she doesnt want a reltionship but in my heart it says keep trying with ex, but my head has latly been overpowering which is good, and then the new girl...i want to just get to know her better, i would never jump into anything to soon...am i doing something wrong or am i on an ok route here
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