NJooo Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 (edited) There was someone that I was seeing. Well things didn't go so well and we ended up breaking things off. It was mainly due to him not putting forth much effort to spend time with me and put his priorities first. Well we had some good times and not so good times after the fact it was some arguments and some things were said that shouldn't have been. Well he blocked me on social media and all of that...Recently I started seeing someone new. Well being the person I am I don't like to hold grudge against anyone and I tried to make peace or amends with him before he had blocked me and I told him that I had moved on and I was seeing someone new and going out with them. Well now he's unblocked my number. He hasn't unblock me on social media or anything but just my number. Why do you think he did that? Ok please do not leave rude comments. Thank you for reading my post. Edited July 7, 2018 by missnini
basil67 Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 I guess that he's moved past anger and into ambivalence. Don't waste your time reaching out - just work towards finding your own ambivalence towards him. 1
ItIsNotMe Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 Why are you even thinking about him after you're already with someone else? You say that you've told him some things that you shouldn't. May be he has felt offended but now, when there's no more drama, he doesn't feel the need to keep you blocked. Be happy and don't pay attention to him. Take care of yourself and your new BF 1
HumanMachine Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 How do you know that he’s unblocked your number? 5
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 I too don't understand how you know this. If you are no longer dating him why are you even paying attention to what he does -- unblock your # but still blocking you on social media? If you are apart his actions are irrelevant in your life. 1
preraph Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 He doesn't want to see your social media or you to see his. He wants to give himself a break from thinking about the breakup, especially now that you are seeing someone else, so that he can more easily not focus on you and just move on. He left the phone maybe because he forgot to block you on it or maybe because he doesn't know how to block you or maybe because if you do call, he would be curious what you were calling to say. If I had to imagine what he would hope to hear, it would be something like, I broke up with the new guy, he couldn't hold a candle to you, you are so much more of a man than he'll ever be. You know, stuff that isn't going to happen... But if you want him -- and I assume you do or why would you care one way or another why he blocked you, then stop playing games and see if he wants to talk. But don't expect the existing problems to just go poof. People don't change their basic personality just because a woman broke up with them. If he did treat you bad or neglectful or disrespectful, and you take him back now, he'll know he can just keep on doing that and probably push the envelope to see how much more you'll take. There's a billion guys out there. If he wasn't who you hoped he was, stop looking over your shoulder at him and just keep looking.
BC1980 Posted July 7, 2018 Posted July 7, 2018 It could be any number of reasons. You’d have to ask him and then hope you get an honest answer. I don’t advocate that you ask him.
N2017 Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 Probably hoping for you to reach out. Don't do it. Your new guy would feel betrayed.
cooldude123 Posted July 11, 2018 Posted July 11, 2018 First off, I don't get how you would know if he blocked you unless its whatsapp communicator, as it shows 2 blue check marks if delivered, If not only 1 single grey check mark if blocked. I have done this for my wife and she has noticed it and even questioned me. Why would i give her the reason?? Secondly, it could be a phone issue. He may have changed his phone and forgot to block your number. You will never know. Assuming things and going by it WILL never work!
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