jjb117 Posted July 1, 2018 Posted July 1, 2018 Kind of a crazy question, but for some reason I feel the need to catch up with my ex. We haven't uttered a word to each other in almost a year, I think it has been 10 months at this point. To give you some background information, she broke up with me so i'm the dumpee, and before it was a definitive break up, we went through a bs break that lasted for way too long. Anyways, it all started when one of my friends randomly showed a picture of my ex with her gf (she's bi). And for some reason, I felt indifferent, almost happy. As if, they were meant for each other. As if, they were a better fit for each other and that fine with me. Although i'm not necessarily with anyone else, I've dated a lot since. I understand now that there are other people out there for me - which is something I couldn't grasp in the beginning of the breakup. I just, I just don't know whether to do it though. I've blocked her this whole time up until yesterday, not sure if she even has my number still. It would seem very strange of me to POP right back in, but i'm so curious as to what she's up to. But at the same time, she hurt me more than anyone else has. I don't have anything against her, but I can't just let that slide either. I have been going back and forth on this one. I just don't know what to do.
ItIsNotMe Posted July 1, 2018 Posted July 1, 2018 No. Don't. Yoy say she has hurt you more than anyone else has. What do you want from such a person after so much time? To re-open your wounds and bleed to death? Let her go and find someone else, more appropriate. If it was a matter of feelings, you wouldn't have waited 10 months to do it. It sort of: I see my toy with someone else and I need to mess it up. Better for both of you don't to contact her. Be happy and healthy
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