noname Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 everyone here must be as shady as your man if they think you are over-reacting. anyone whom may be in a HEALTHY relationship would never have a scheduled time to talk to you. i mean, you can't expect him to call you whenever, but considering he calls only after 9, i think he may be married or atleast living with another person. sorry, i am not bitter or lesbo or the type of woman that "whips" her man, i am just smart and would not let myself be taken for a ride like that...... So, let me get this straight. anytime people schedule time when it is good for both of them to talk it is UNHEALTHY. but assuming that someone is married or living with someone else just because they do so is totally HEALTHY? there goes everything that i have ever learned about relationships... and everyone here is shady? thanks for the info. i'm gonna stop posting on this sight right away!
AmberAriesMom Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 From what I see your bf is having issues because it's his company's phone and they set the rules. Why can't he get his own phone and do what he wants with it?
LonelySoul Posted September 2, 2005 Posted September 2, 2005 You shouldn't have a time set when to call someone or talk to them. If you need to call, call. If you want to talk, talk. Now I can understand if you're having a huge conversation and he can't be on the phone for hours before 9 but I wouldn't take that excuse. I talk to my SO other about 3 or 4 times a day, shortly, just ot see how things are going or if I have something to ask or tell, maybe sometime more. Who knows! What you can do is if he's at work, call from work. If he's at a friends house tell him to use his friends phone for a few minutes so you can squeeze in a conversation or two. Get my point.
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