Grey40 Posted June 27, 2018 Posted June 27, 2018 d0nnivain, I think the reason being is that everyone around us seems to think we're a good match for whatever reason, and she's even told me that she likes guys that are about 8-10 years older than her. So I'm guessing age isn't a big deal to her and isn't quite a factor to this dilemma we're having right now. I feel like compatibility-wise, personality and her waning interest levels may be bigger factors. But I'd like to ask, from your standpoint, is there anything else you see aside from age? Dude, date someone that is at least 21. what the hell are you going to do for a date? Coffee shop? The mall? You can’t even go out for drinks and relax and loosen up at all. You’re wasting your time, she’s not going to go out with you alone, it will take literally months of going out in groups first, and building her comfort level to that point that you can meet, date and sleep with multiple new women by the time that happens. I’ve learned my lesson over the years in spending too much time trying to pursue one women for too long , life is too short for that. There is that 10- 20% chance she’ll eventually grow to like you and you may end up dating but that’s the exception not the rule. All my relationships that were serious and meaningful were ones where it was fairly mutual and happened pretty qusickly without excuses and bull**** in between.
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