sillychicaindeed Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 Hey, I've been reading posts lately, and found that they are very helpful... I just wanted all of your feedback on this. Before I left college for the summer, I was dating a pretty nice guy, and things were going fine. Sometimes I was uncomfortable with things because he's had a lot of ex's and sex with people, and frankly, I'm a virgin and staying so until marriage. We were fighting about little things, and prolly scared of the fact that we were going to be hours apart, so we broke up. Over the summer, I didn't date anyone really, but he did for a month and had sex with her as well. He's had a lot of partners, and I'm trying to be ok with it. He and I started dating again when I got back to college. But, personally, I believe in having sex when you are really really close to someone, but I guess some men don't think like that. What are you opinions? Should I continue to be cautious and not keep on dating him? Or do you think with time, I will be fine and ought to be open to people different from myself?
Rocko Posted August 31, 2005 Posted August 31, 2005 That really depends on how you view things...I think having compatible morals really helps strengthen relationships. It doesn't seem like you're into casual sex, and he is. Perhaps you and him aren't compatible in other aspects of your relationship as well...
Love_aint_happenin Posted September 1, 2005 Posted September 1, 2005 Hey, I've been reading posts lately, and found that they are very helpful... I just wanted all of your feedback on this. Before I left college for the summer, I was dating a pretty nice guy, and things were going fine. Sometimes I was uncomfortable with things because he's had a lot of ex's and sex with people, and frankly, I'm a virgin and staying so until marriage. We were fighting about little things, and prolly scared of the fact that we were going to be hours apart, so we broke up. Over the summer, I didn't date anyone really, but he did for a month and had sex with her as well. He's had a lot of partners, and I'm trying to be ok with it. He and I started dating again when I got back to college. But, personally, I believe in having sex when you are really really close to someone, but I guess some men don't think like that. What are you opinions? Should I continue to be cautious and not keep on dating him? Or do you think with time, I will be fine and ought to be open to people different from myself? Sounds to me like you have your priorities in order, which I applaud you for, and he doesn't, let alone respect yours! Stick to your guns babe! Alan
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