How do you come off interested but not too interested?

[mickleelee4]

I really like this girl and am really into her. We've been talking/going on a few dates and so far I am really into her but I know I need to stay calm and cool.

 

Whar are some tips? I don't want to just blow her phone up with texts/calls, I want it to look like I am interested but not to the point where I'm clingy and needy

 

How should I talk to her? Just setting up dates? Can I talk to her about her day or anything?

[Happy Lemming]

How should I talk to her? Just setting up dates? Can I talk to her about her day or anything?

 

Personally, I call on Wednesday for a Saturday night date. I've already done my research, planned the date and know where I'm taking her. If she says "yes", I firm up times on Friday afternoon.

 

Then pick her up on Saturday. At this point, you can ask about her week, etc. It will give you something to talk about if the conversation goes stale.

 

Best of luck!!

[warp123]

know her schedule

 

propose date

 

if shes busy more than once, move on

[d0nnivain]

Make eye contact when you see her. Really listen when she talks & be interested in what she has to say. Ask insightful questions but don't interview her.

 

Do maintain contact between dates but like you said, don't blow up her phone.

 

Affirm your interest. Say things like "I'm really glad I met you"; "I'm enjoying getting to know you" etc. Compliment her.

 

 

Be romantic. Hold open doors for her & place your hand at the small of her back when she walks through. Have a candlelight meal, even if it's just a picnic. Hold her hand when you walk together. Take her dancing where you dance as a couple.

[kendahke]

I really like this girl and am really into her. We've been talking/going on a few dates and so far I am really into her but I know I need to stay calm and cool.

 

Whar are some tips? I don't want to just blow her phone up with texts/calls, I want it to look like I am interested but not to the point where I'm clingy and needy

 

How should I talk to her? Just setting up dates? Can I talk to her about her day or anything?

 

Don't blow up her phone with texts/calls. Set up dates and do your talking and interest conveying then.

 

It is possible to talk yourself out of a relationship by spending too much time texting/calling before you both agree that a relationship is a good thing to pursue.

[mortensorchid]

Be sure that you know her schedule and what she is/isn't doing with her time that she may be available.

[Lotsgoingon]

Have a great life outside of this girl ...

 

Do that ... and you won't appear desperate ... because you know you have a lot more going on.