JovialLime Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Backstory I was dating Girl 1 however during that relationship Girl 2 wanted to get with me. I kept loyal but when I and Girl 1 broke up Girl 2 Found someone else and is still in that relationship. Now These events started 2 years ago where Girl 2 is still in a relationship. I got nothing against the guy but he's very outgoing so I'm unsure if they will stay together much more or not. All in all there's a party soon where Girl 2 and I are both going to be there (plus her BF). Do I confess previous feelings or forget and move on? We are good friends, and trust each other, but I don't talk regularly to them. I have had multiple relations within these 2 years of which I have never experience any connection, where I then look to this crush. Interesting notes While dating Girl 1 she kept asking for me to dump Girl 1.Told others that she'd get off with me when she was single.Keeps saying she's watching my every action during the two years.She gave me a bag once and told me to bin it when a group of us met up for a day and told me not look inside but took it away before I could get up.Continuously asked for my accessories like bracelets or sometimes hoodies. Recap: Do I confess feelings or move on to another girl?
Lotsgoingon Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Dude, based on your description, there's a 99.9 percent chance Girl 2 already knows you have feelings for her. She knows you have feelings by how you probably light up when you see her and when you talk to her, by how quickly you reply to her messages and calls and by enthusiastically you communicate with her. I can nearly feel your affection for her from the words in this post. So I don't get how you can "confess feelings" to someone who already knows you have feelings for her. Do you want to ask her to dump her current bf and get with you--as a couple. (These sudden transitions often flop.) Or do you simply want to sneak around with her ... and throw in some fun conversations? What you decide depends on how much tolerance for chaos you have. I find life hard enough without adding the challenge of scheming to get with a woman who is already dating someone. But clarify your intentions if you will.
Grey40 Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Confessing your feelings is the absolute worst thing you can do. Don’t do that please. Just go to the party, treat her like a friend and just have a good time. That’s all you can do. If she’s thinking of leaving her BF, and sees how much fun you are etc, she might make up her mind. But confessing is going to make her look down on you.
Adiron Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Girl 2 is still in a relationship. I got nothing against the guy but he's very outgoing so I'm unsure if they will stay together much more or not. I wasn't aware that outgoing people don't stay together very long.
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