smackie9 Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Ya maybe she was wanting to light a fire under your ass to come see her because men are starting to hand out their number to her, so you better hurry up or else. 1
RideTheLightening Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 I have no problem that she got hit on, what it is is how she told me, like she was flattered and got a number, it sounded insecure and immature Donnivan has a good question. When do you plan to live in the same zip code again?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 21, 2018 Posted June 21, 2018 Ya maybe she was wanting to light a fire under your ass to come see her because men are starting to hand out their number to her, so you better hurry up or else. That's how I interpreted it, too. When was the last time you saw each other, OP? How much time have you spent together in person?
kendahke Posted June 22, 2018 Posted June 22, 2018 I have no problem that she got hit on, what it is is how she told me, like she was flattered and got a number, it sounded insecure and immature but that is coming through your own insecurity filter and you're assigning your interpretation to her motives as if it's her burden to carry when it's not. This is yours. It seems more that you're trying to find some way to punish her. If it's down to you doing that, then you need to just cut her loose so she can find a confident boyfriend. She doesn't need one whose insecurity causes him to rush out and find a posse to go ride and punish her over a nothing burger. Yes, it's totally plausible that she didn't look at the paper he handed her---and taking it helped her wrap up the situation faster than if she stood there and presented a bloody dissertation on why she wasn't going to accept it. That's some hollywood movie BS and life isn't a hollywood movie. This thread really highlights the fact that you're not cut out for LDR's. You're unable to trust her out of your line of site--that much is clear from all you've written.
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